Those same things you tell yourself are the kind of excuses I made to myself too when I was acting out. The difference is that you reason with yourself before acting and I don't and I am so sorry.
Wow - that is great for him to admit the difference between someone who thinks before saying or doing something hurtful and someone who doesn't. That is I think he is getting it moment. Good for you to tell your inner dialogue to shut up. Me BW - 46
Him WH - 53
Together 23 yrs, Married 18
DDay August 2011
2 kids - 13 and 15
Gotta love the life that we livin'