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User Topic: Trying to move forward.
blueeyed
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Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been 11 months since finding out of my WW affair. She continues to try and seek forgivness and can't understand why I will not accept her back or love her as I once did.

Trying every which way to convince her to sit and work together in filing for a separation has only made her more determined to some how in her own strange way win me back while still living with the OM.

My kid's and family including her own have convinced me to move on without her and file for a separation.
Trying to minimize the Lawyers cost I tried once again to encourage her to work with me in dividing up our assets but with no success.

Trying to stay foccused on my future and let go of my past but it's not easy when my WW truly believes that one day soon I will welcome her back.


Next step ?

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's trying to R while still living with the OM?


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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gma56
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

some how in her own strange way win me back while still living with the OM.
She's either still deep in the WS fog or plain heartless. Ouch !
She definitely wants to keep eating her bullshit cake.
Keep the NC,except kids and joint finances. The 180 is your friend too right now since she's on the crzy train.
Hugs
Gma


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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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