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User Topic: Douchebag Update
Douchebagfree
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The big move is done :)
I was supposed to meet him last Saturday to drop off the keys for the new owners, we ach have a set. I figured why put myself through another emotional roller coaster filled with fake smiles on his part so I showed up half an hour earlier, left the keys on the counter and walked out the door for the last time. I must admit, I was a bit sad to leave that house. It was my first house and had been our home for the past 6 years. I was also relieved though, one less thing tying me to him.

I received an email from him today telling me he had changed his personal email . I made the list along with a few other lucky people

All of our communication has either been through texts or work email so I'm not sure why he decided to "throw me on the list".

Hopefully next time I see him it'll be to sign divorce papers


Sometimes you have to stand alone, just to make sure you still can.

Posts: 58 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Onward!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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anewday78
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! One big step behind you and only one more to go. If/when he emails/texts you next, you should tell him that you require no further communication from him. Everything that's left can be handled through your respective attorneys.
Now you should go out celebrating with friends and enjoy the single life. Get dressed nice and go out somewhere fabulous for martinis with your girlfriends!

[This message edited by anewday78 at 6:57 PM, June 17th (Monday)]


Posts: 350 | Registered: May 2013
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, June 17th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woooo hoooo, ass hole. He is a fucking idiot.


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

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Burtajk
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Default  Posted: 6:57 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would change my personal email and not tell him!

Posts: 1 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Uk
Bravenewgirl
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Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

awesome!!! Your strength and grace throughout this whole ordeal has been astounding to witness.

I am so proud of you and rooting for your fabulous new beginning.

Agree about changing your email...what the fuck would he need to contact you about that could not go through lawyers?

Maybe make a special email just for him.
I wonder if DoucheBox@gmail.com is taken? He should get the hint.


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Posts: 661 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Canada
SBB
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wonder if DoucheBox@gmail.com is taken? He should get the hint.

Oh, my ribs. One for the quotes thread.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

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