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User Topic: my beloved eva
jb3199
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry, friend.

Bullshit on the tough-guy masculine front that many expect of us. She is family, and the pain is deep when something tragic like this happens. *wipes away tears*

At least you and OKM are together to support one another.

So, so sorry.

[This message edited by jb3199 at 8:15 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)]


BH-46
WW-44
2 boys-17 & 20(special needs)
Married 21yrs.(together 27yrs.)

All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary Puckett
D-Day: 9/18/09 D-Day#2: 2/19/10 The Marriage Killer: 6/6/11
Heading for D


Posts: 2030 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: northeast
stunnedin12
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I am so sorry. Your Eva wasn't "just a kitty". Pets are family. I'm sorry for your loss.


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

Posts: 450 | Registered: Jan 2013
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG! I'm so sorry to hear this. They are not just cats or dogs or any other pet. They are loved and become a member of the family just as any person would. They are loved and know how to give love in return.

I'm sorry for your loss. I have two special kitties of my own and I don't know what I would do without them.

(((HUGS)))

She's beautiful.

[This message edited by simplydevastated at 8:18 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)]


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Kelany
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a beatiful precious kitty. I'm so sorry for your loss.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, LH! She was beautiful. I'm glad that she was such a comfort to you. Take care of yourself.

(((LH and family)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3571 | Registered: Oct 2011
sailorgirl
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eva was so beautiful. I am so sorry.

My husband's love for his dog was part of what made me fall in love with him. 13 years after she died, he still cries when we talk about her.


Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling

Posts: 787 | Registered: Jan 2013
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry LH.


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 4700 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no! I'm so sorry. Had to put a loved member of our family down late last year. Hardest thing. Completely lost it. Still so hard. They're family and there are people I don't miss as much as my beloved golden.

I know he's still here. I seriously do. I can sometimes hear him. She remains with you both. She always will.


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


Posts: 6795 | Registered: Mar 2010
stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

Posts: 2403 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still BFE, but now BFE, CA
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no! I am so terribly sorry LH. She was so beautiful and I am sure she had a happy life as part of your family.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6631 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
5454real
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss brother.

as always, strength.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2669 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
256shute
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry about Eva. Pets bring so much joy to any circumstances. Eva was beautiful and I'm sure she has always been there for you. Please take care of yourself.

Posts: 22 | Registered: May 2013 | From: USA
twodoves
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry about your kitten, that's awful. :(


Me - BS
Him - WS (N3v3rG1v1ngUp)
Together 7 years, married for 2
He was cheating for 5 years
5 OW
D-days: 4/23/13, 4/27/13, 5/10/13
1 toddler, baby girl on the way in December

Posts: 160 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Illinois
forksintheroad
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

RIP sweet angel


35 BW(me); 35 FWH(him)
2DD's 6 yrs, 3 yrs; 2dogs/3cats
Together 16 yrs, married 8 yrs
DDay May 29, 2011; EA/PA Nov 05-March 06; working on R
People may not remember what you did or said but they will always remember how you made them feel

Posts: 310 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Massachusetts
really trying
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My hearts breaking for you


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10390 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
BeautifulEmpty
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry...
My dog Ziggy is super smart and gets into lots of trouble because of it. He's older now so not as bad as when he was little but man! STUBBORN!
There was a long (2-3 years) of time I was absolutely lost in depression and illness. I was bed ridden, drugged out of my mind and needed to be hospitalized but my husband was more interested in his new or next hookup to take care of me or at least, find help.
No one had my back, my kids didnt understand and had rejected me because I couldn't 'mom' them and their dads new wife was telling them I was faking it. I was lost.
My Ziggy was the only one who was there. That little dog sat by my side in the dark for at least TWO YEARS...only leaving to take care of his needs.
How impossibly boring and awful that must have been for him but he did it.
I am so deeply sorry over the loss of your little girl but I am so glad she was there for you when you needed her most.
These fur babies may be annoying, stinky, loud thieves of everything good on that plate you left slightly unattended but they are also blessing, comfort, joy and reminders that things can get better...not to mention, how we should treat each other.
(((Hugs)))


Me: 42 BS
Him: 38 ws
Ow: 44 head case, no obs
5 DD's: 21, 18, 17, 15, 10
Last D-day: August 2012 with lots of very blurry lines.

Posts: 242 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington State
scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, honey, I am right their with you as I nurse my own sick Luna. She, too, has been my constant, loyal, loving beautiful girl and has kept me from feeling that no one loved me...

Our pets own a part of our soul and they live with us forever, but the loss of them is heart-wrenching. Please know that we are with you and holding you in the *LIGHT*


Me-BS-60-Can't tell you how painful it was to change this number!
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3375 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
OK now
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry LH. Eva was a living symbol of your recovery from another painful tragedy.

Posts: 1704 | Registered: May 2007 | From: NC
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very sorry. I am a fur-mommy too and it is so hard to think abou any harm coming to them. Don't be ashamed of your tears for her.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1246 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. Losing a beloved pet is so hard.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

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