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User Topic: my beloved eva
NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh LH,

I am so, so sorry for your loss.

I am 1000% certain that I would not have survived the past 18 months without my pets. On my darkest days, they were my only reasons to smile.

I am so sorry Eva was taken from you so soon and so senselessly.

I know how painful it is and can only pray that your grief will pass gently on its way...


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1251 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
Foolme1
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Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She isn't just a cat. She was family. I refer to my cat as my son. I would be lost if I lost him. I'm so sorry for your loss...


BGF-me (31)-devoted girlfriend
xBF-him (30)-manipulative cheater
One beautiful dd. 14 years together (off and on). Married for 8 years, divorced, then "dating" for 3 more years.

Posts: 115 | Registered: Mar 2013
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I'm so, so sorry for your loss...and in such a heartbreaking way. All of us with special pets...the ones that really "understood" us, understand.


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1159 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
MystiKay
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Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a beautiful kitty! I am so sorry for you loss. Have you read the rainbow bridge poem. I love it.

http://www.rainbowbridge.com/Poem.htm


Posts: 282 | Registered: Aug 2012
grapefruit
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Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry for your loss. I know how painful it is - we lost our beloved kitty when he was only 18 months old to heart trouble. It was just awful seeing him suffer, and devastating to lose him.

Eva looked like a beautiful kitty. I'm sure you have many happy memories


FWW / BS (me)
FWH / BS (him)
In R ...

Posts: 85 | Registered: Jan 2010
AussieMum
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Default  Posted: 1:02 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry :( Such a beautiful cat, but so much more than that - a beloved friend.


Me 46
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS11 & DD7)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14

Posts: 180 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
OktoberMest
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Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the overwhelming support we have received here.

LH is devastated. So am I. We loved he so much. She was so tiny, yet so huge in the house. It seems very empty here, despite having another cat and two dogs. She was unique, and made memories everywhere.

It was her second birthday today. happy birthday my darling, rest easy. Catch all the birds, voles, rabbits and slow worms you like. Xxx

Missing her so much.

I lost my Grannie whom I love very much this year. I was sad, but I understood. She was 87 and lived a tremendous life. She was ready to move on, next to her husband.
The grief of losing eva is totally overwhelming. I feel bad that I grieve more for my cat, but it seems so unfair. She was not even 2 for christs sake. God I miss her.

Just expect her to break in through the cat flap with a jingling bell and noisy MIAOW wondering what all the fuss is about.

My other cat is an older boy. A solo flyer that was so tolerant of her. He's just sat and stared at the cat flap.

This loss stuff sucks real bad.


Me: FWW (35) Growing up at last.
LonelyHusband: BH (41)
Dday 1: 29/Oct/11; Dday 2:15/Nov/11; last TT 15/Mar/12
In R...working my arse off.
When you're struggling with commitment to your marriage, just imagine what it's like to be a penguin.

Posts: 558 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: UK
OktoberMest
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Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the overwhelming support we have received here.

LH is devastated. So am I. We loved he so much. She was so tiny, yet so huge in the house. It seems very empty here, despite having another cat and two dogs. She was unique, and made memories everywhere.

It was her second birthday today. happy birthday my darling, rest easy. Catch all the birds, voles, rabbits and slow worms you like. Xxx

Missing her so much.

I lost my Grannie whom I love very much this year. I was sad, but I understood. She was 87 and lived a tremendous life. She was ready to move on, next to her husband.
The grief of losing eva is totally overwhelming. I feel bad that I grieve more for my cat, but it seems so unfair. She was not even 2 for christs sake. God I miss her.

Just expect her to break in through the cat flap with a jingling bell and noisy MIAOW wondering what all the fuss is about.

My other cat is an older boy. A solo flyer that was so tolerant of her. He's just sat and stared at the cat flap.

This loss stuff sucks real bad.


Me: FWW (35) Growing up at last.
LonelyHusband: BH (41)
Dday 1: 29/Oct/11; Dday 2:15/Nov/11; last TT 15/Mar/12
In R...working my arse off.
When you're struggling with commitment to your marriage, just imagine what it's like to be a penguin.

Posts: 558 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: UK
ItsaClimb
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Default  Posted: 1:16 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so, so sorry for your loss! I literally wouldn't have survived the last 10 months without my beloved dog, so I fully understand the deep and powerful support a pet can provide during traumatic times. My heart is just aching for you.


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

Posts: 948 | Registered: Oct 2012
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 2:15 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She must have been an amazing spirit. I'm so sorry.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.

Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.


Posts: 3902 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
aesir
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Default  Posted: 2:51 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I find these kinds of posts to be among the hardest on SI. Not just an animal, but a beloved that has done so much, and deserves so much more in return.


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Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 2:57 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Man, that is just heartbreaking. What a beautiful girl, with such a beautiful name. I am so sorry for your loss, and what you had to go through with finding her in that condition, LonelyHusband and OktoberMest.

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LonelyHusband
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Default  Posted: 4:10 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That cat literally saved my life.

Just when I thought I had developed healthier coping skills for dealing with loss, it turns out I am still a fucking disaster. I'm sitting here in floods of tears, bawling for my little baby girl. I recognise myself flying around the stages of grief from denial to bargaining to anger, but recognising it doesn't seem to help me cope any better. I just want my kitten back :(

I recognise this pain all too well. My heart is broken.

[This message edited by LonelyHusband at 4:20 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)]


BS ( me) 41
fWS (OktoberMest) 35
D day #1 29/10/2011, D day #2 15/112011, D day #3 15/03/2012
Reconciling.
“It’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all”, is inadequate consolation when you vacuum up a child's hamster'

Posts: 1290 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: UK
catlover50
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Default  Posted: 4:24 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart is breaking for you; what an awful loss.

She was beautiful inside and out. I hope you guys can lean on each other at this time.

(((((LH))))))), ((((((octobermest)))))

[This message edited by catlover50 at 4:25 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)]



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1728 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 6:37 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eva was never just a cat.

She was your family.

Rest in Peace, Eva.

She will be waiting for you, LH and Oktober, at the Rainbow Bridge.

(((((((LH, Oktober, and family))))))))


Posts: 3356 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
selkiescot
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Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs and peace. I am so sorry for your loss.


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ME 57
WH 64
DDAYs TOO MANY
daughter 27
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.

Posts: 1382 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: CT
heartache101
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Default  Posted: 6:44 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ohhh Honey I am so sorry!


There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3187 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
realitybites
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Default  Posted: 7:15 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Someone once told me to post a picture to the web (which you just did) to honor them and release their joy to the world when my own cat of 15 years passed away.

This same person said they will be waiting for you and meet you at the gate of heaven (or whatever your religion believes) when your time comes.

Hold onto that. It helped me.


Posts: 5634 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: florida
confused615
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh,Im so very,very sorry. What a beautiful kitty.

((((((((((LH))))))))))


((((((((((OM))))))))))


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,10
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7321 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for posting that LH. She is a very precious girl.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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