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User Topic: my beloved eva
notquiteoverit
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Member # 32919
Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a beloved companion is horrible and painful.


Me - BS 50
Him - WS 49
SOW - 52 destitute loser
D-day 1/28/11

Posts: 573 | Registered: Jul 2011
JustAShadow
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Member # 38370
Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Such a tragic loss.

((((LH, OktoberMest, Eva))))


ME: 41 - Madhatter, 2 PAs, 1997, 2003
Him: 35 - Madhatter, 2 PAs, 2004, 3/2012 - 3/2014
Status: Living Apart

Posts: 198 | Registered: Feb 2013
heartbroken0903
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Member # 27879
Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your & OkM's loss. It's NEVER "just a cat." My heart goes out to you both.


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciled after divorce

"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"


Posts: 2088 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss ((LH)) and ((OkM))

Like children, pets just seem to slide into our lives, and we wonder what we did before they arrived.

She is beautiful.

My DD's wonderful cat was hit by a car, in front of our house, and my DS is the one who had to put her out of her misery. (we were out of town). It takes an amazing person to be able to do that.

LH, you are an amazing person.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1275 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
SilverRose13
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Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


No words, just hugs.


Together 16 years, Married 13
BS (me; 32)
fWS (wtsmm; 32) 2 1/2 yr LTA
2 children, 11 and 5
DD #1 9/27/2011 (EA/Sexting)
DD #2 10/3/2011 (Some PA)
DD #3 11/28/2011 (Full Disclosure)

Posts: 223 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Northern Illinois
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:27 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I knew what you had written from the title, but my first reaction when I opened it up was, WHAT A BEAUTIFUL CAT! What a beautiful cat.

I'm so sorry for the loss of her life. She looks like she had a lot more life left.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

No humane person will say or think 'just a cat'. She's a terrible loss for you.

I'm very glad you were together for a time, though.


fBH (me) - 70, fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9910 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so so very sorry.

We have an unknown number of days in this life - all of us.

You showed your sweet Eva so much love and comfort in her time here. That's all anyone can ask.

(((LH, OkM)))


You will have bad times, but they will always wake you up to the stuff you weren't paying attention to. - Robin Williams

Posts: 16774 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
stillhere09
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I'm so sorry!


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


Posts: 3020 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
Skan
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very, very sorry. Please accept my sincerest condolences. What a beautiful lady, she was! I'm very fond of meesers, purebreds and happy coincidences.

They really ask for so little, don't they? For a bit of food, some water, an occasional litter pan policing, they amuse you, purr in your lap, deposit dead critters in your shoes, and let you dampen their coats with your tears. They are a blessing while they are with us and too soon gone.

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4671 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7503 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
openedupmyeyes
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Frustrated  Posted: 9:48 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for your loss. Grateful for the time you had together.


Me:53 BS
Him:53 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:35
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 762 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eva was beautiful, I am sorry for your loss. I picked my beloved little Chihuahua from the road five years ago after he was run over, right in front of me. It still haunts me... Again, I'm sorry for your loss.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9688 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
Jaded4life
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Default  Posted: 11:01 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss. It's so sad when we lose a precious pet and member of the family. Take care of you.


Me: 43...so betrayed.
Him: WH 46...multiple ONS, in therapy. A work in progress.
D-Months: Nov & Dec 2012. TT.
Married 4 years, together 5.
One beautiful amazing daughter, 15 mos

Posts: 94 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Land of the lost
tuscandreamer
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Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is so very hard. I understand the comfort a pet can bring when going through the pains of infidelity. My beloved Donner was my source of comfort.

I think that Eva and Donner are playing over the Rainbow Bridge together.


BS 47
WH 44
Dday #1 6/20/07, Dday #2 (different OW) 5/16/09
3 DDs (14, 9, 7)
Reconciling???

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