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User Topic: I threw DS23 out yesterday
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's wonderful news!!

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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad he's finally got a place.


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2538 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very happy to read this, ppga! We're counting the minutes with you. ((((hugs))))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24436 | Registered: Aug 2011
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great news. You and your family are in my thoughts.


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9768 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2527 | Registered: Aug 2012
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad he was finally able to get placed. I'll keep him in my prayers.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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rainagain
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful!!

Love , peace and prayers for DS and you


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1290 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DS just called. Wanted to know if he could spend the night here tonight since we will have to leave at 6am tomorrow to get him to the rehab by 8:30am. I said yes.

I even told him I would wash his clothes for him. I'm sure none of his clothes have been washed in two months.

I know better than to get my hopes up too much, but I am feeling encouraged by, if nothing other than the fact that he has continued to keep all his appointments that have facilitated him getting into the facility. So, for today, I chose to be happy about his situation.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7021 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you and DS every bit of strength I've got.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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rainagain
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Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1290 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
hexed
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PPG -- for today, I am happy for you. And for every day you have something positive to say about this situation!

Lots of prayers for all of you. This has been so hard on you and I'm sure DS. I'm so impressed by your resolve and strength. I hope your DS has the same during his treatment. Fingers crossed and anything else that might help.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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UndecidedinMA
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga)))
I know this is the hardest thing to do but you need to be strong.

I can tell you his fate if not. He will be 58 years old living in a shed drinking beer all day. No friends cause they are mostly dead from drugs & alcohol.

That is my brother, my parents enabled him his whole life. He was bailed out of OUI's, bad checks, & other things to hard to count. The only reason I een tolreate him is for my 87yo mothers sake. I remind him every week, that when my mother goes so does he. He will be 50/60 something and homeless, no money, no job, no friends. It is a sad waste that could have been helped, they just thought being his soft place was good, it wasn't.


ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know UDIMA. I'm trying my best, and I think I'm being strong.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PPGA))) I'm so excited for you both!

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rainagain
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did it go today?


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1290 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been thinking of you and your DS all day. Hope you are resting after a successful intake. ((((hugs))))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:00 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((PPGA)))))))


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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confused615
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Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((ppga)))))


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7142 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope I am not overstepping here, but I know y'all truly care and are concerned. It didn't go well yesterday and PPGA and her family really need prayers/thoughts/mojo.

(((PPGA)))


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Sending love and mojo for you PPGA and your son and family.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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