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User Topic: I threw DS23 out yesterday
2oldforthis
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Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(PPGA) I can't even imagine how painful this is for you and your family.

Hugs.


He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

Love kills slowly.


Posts: 1640 | Registered: Jun 2008
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((PPGA))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5013 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am in complete despair now.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7052 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Talk to us, hon.

What's going on???

((((ppga))))


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21039 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga)))

What's going on now?


Posts: 11591 | Registered: Mar 2008
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just complete and utter frustration. Feeling fucking hatred for everything. Can't get any fucking help for my son even though I am now willing to PAY for it. But, alas, there is nowhere for him to go immediately. NO fucking where.

And the fucking country wonders why Sandy Hooks happen.

What a fucking joke.

[This message edited by painpaingoaway at 3:36 PM, September 5th (Thursday)]


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7052 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But a hummingbird just came to my feeder, so I have decided that's a sign of an angel hovering nearby to help us.

Can you tell I'm drunk?


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7052 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sure there are angels watching over you!!

I don't know, pain... At this point, I might be tempted to let him get wasted and take him to the ER. They have to take him THEN, right??


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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know, pain... At this point, I might be tempted to let him get wasted and take him to the ER. They have to take him THEN, right??
Sadly, that is usually what it takes. But, I have a friend in the ER, and the wait there for a bed in a psychiatric unit is 4 days right now.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7052 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't understand why there's a problem with 'the system' understanding the urgency of the matter. He's CLEARLY a danger to himself and others. He has a history of being a danger to himself, which resulted in a traumatic brain injury, which exacerbated his issues with being a danger to himself and others.

It seems pretty simple to me.

I feel your frustration, (((pain))).


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CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((PPGA))))))

I am holding you and your dear son into the light. I wish there was something concrete I could do for him and for you.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1015 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have you tried this one Pain?

http://www.brylin.com/

They have (from what I've been told from family in the field) an excellent dual diagnosis program. They are private though, so I don't know what your insurance would cover or not. Just a thought

[This message edited by SI Staff at 5:44 PM, September 5th (Thursday)]



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At the ER trying to get my son admitted. He is suicidal.

He came willingly this time, thank God. No police, no hand cuffs and shackles, so I'm pretty calm. Just very lonely, as my H left this morning for Colorado.

I'm just so sad.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7052 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((PPGA))))))))

Prayers for your son.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks AN


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7052 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PPGA)))

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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm thinking of you PPGA.
(((hugs)))


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 7:20 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((PPGA and Son))))

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((ppga & son))))) Holding you both, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga & son)))

Keeping both of you in my thoughts and prayers.


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