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User Topic: I threw DS23 out yesterday
willow60
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((ppga and son))))

Thoughts and prayers for both of you.


Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele

Posts: 960 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Upstate NY
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PPGA, I wish you and your son strength.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 6926 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((ppga & DS))))

Keeping you both in my thoughts. Hang in there, I hope he will get the help that he needs.

((((ppga & DS))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2502 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:39 AM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga)))Sending up a prayer for you and your son right now.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7625 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((ppga)))))

So sorry. Please keep us posted.


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21009 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga))) & (((son)))


FBH (me) - 65+, FWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together almost 49 (as of January, 2014)
DDay - 12/2010
Almost Recovered
I share my own experience not because I'm a good model but because it's the only experience I know.

Posts: 8895 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
dameia
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga & son)))

I am praying for you


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

"People who live in a glass house have to answer the door" -Karl Pilkington


Posts: 988 | Registered: Jul 2012
Tred
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga and son)))
Sending you strength.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3299 | Registered: Dec 2011
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you guys. Update when you can.


Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 1854 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you both.


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1277 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We waited 6 hrs in the ER for him to be seen by psych, then he was told that the wait for Institute of Psychiatry was 4 days. So that meant he would have to wait on the ER for 4 days. He then lied and told them he was not suicidal so he could leave. Once again, total system FAIL.


me BS female 55/him WS 58
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 6763 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG!!! NO!!!!

(((PPGA)))


Posts: 10929 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ppga - I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through. For what little good it does, please know that I am holding you and your son in my thoughts at all times. ((((((hugs))))))


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're in the lowcountry, right? Can you take him to Charlotte?

Posts: 10929 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((PPGA,son,family))))


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9614 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is home with me now. I simply could not put him back on the street in his condition.

So, the cycle begins again.

I just saw this. It is heartbreaking, and so so similar to our experience with the mental health system. A must read for everyone. God rest his tormented soul.


Subject: 'MasterChef's' Josh Marks loses 'battle of his life,' commits suicide - CNN.com

http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/13/showbiz/masterchef-joshua-marks-suicide/index.html?hpt=hp_t3


me BS female 55/him WS 58
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 6763 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG ppga (((ppga))) - I don't have words, just hugs. I'm so sorry.


FWW - 40
Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent...

Posts: 5520 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
sunandmoon
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga)))

Continued prayers for you and your family. The cycle is brutal and the system broken.

with wished for a better tomorrow-

sunandmoon


Posts: 1631 | Registered: Mar 2006
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw that, ppga.

Seriously, can you get your son to NC, where he has a better chance of being admitted right away?? If he needs to stay in state, how about the upstate?


Posts: 10929 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((PPGA)))))))) ((((((((DS))))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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