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User Topic: I threw DS23 out yesterday
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Continued prayers for all of you.

(((ppga)))


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21032 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 3:42 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's been gone 5 weeks now. Still has not been called for rehab, however they did send him to the doc for TB test and a physical, and he went.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7021 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
jjct
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga)))

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cass
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga))) Hang in there, hopefully he will get a call soon.


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4960 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PPGA)))
I am sorry you are going through this.

He's been gone 5 weeks now. Still has not been called for rehab

^^^this doesn't sound right to me at all. The longest I have ever seen anyone wait was 10 days. Usually 3-5 days.


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga))) my heart breaks just reading this.


FWW - 40
I'm big on personal responsibility. Own your shit. ALL OF IT.

Posts: 5770 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^this doesn't sound right to me at all. The longest I have ever seen anyone wait was 10 days. Usually 3-5 days.
Chicho, he's going thru a state agency, and sadly, there have been many errors and miscommunications along the way which have delayed the process even more than usual. For example, originally his caseworker could not get in contact with him because he had reversed 2 numbers when he gave her his cell number. It was a total fluke that I called there and spoke with her and she told me that she had been trying to contact him but did not have the right number. Two weeks were pissed away over that mistake. And it horrified me no end at the thought that if I had NOT called, he would have waited forever for their call that would have never come. This is why I still feel the need to advocate on his behalf, because he simply is too impaired to advocate for himself.

The system so so fucked up that I want to give up, but it is all we have. I can only pray that he stays alive, doesn't give up, doesn't get arrested again, and stays out of trouble until he gets in. He came by yesterday and I gave him some soup. I talked to him today and asked him how he liked the soup, and he had not even eaten it.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7021 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, July 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs and prayers


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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rainagain
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ppga and Ds)))


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

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m334455
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Default  Posted: 1:38 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This has been a long time coming. You're doing the right thing. Hang in there.


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

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confused615
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Default  Posted: 5:13 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((ppga))))))


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((ppga))))

Thinking of you and your son today, like most days.

Wishing you both some peace. This is such a hard road.


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3775 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, July 24th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you, and DS, all the hugs and prayers I can.

ppg- you are amazing woman, and mom. I can't even imagine.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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JanetS
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Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are in my thoughts/prayers as well.

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:13 AM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ppga and DS)))

Your son continues to be in my prayers.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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JanetS
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, July 25th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"They" say (whoever THEY are) that the male brain matures at 25. I have one 21 year old male, and one 23 year old male. I am counting the days.

My 27 year old daughter has never caused me nearly the same amount of grief.


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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He finally got the call. He is going into rehab on Monday!!!

I can not believe this has taken almost 2 months to get him into rehab when he has been willing to go!


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7021 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
Tred
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Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad he is finally getting into rehab PPGA. I hope it works out for him.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PPGA, where is he going? You can pm or txt me if you'd rather. If he's near me and you need a place to crash or just want to get together for lunch again, I am SO in.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2664 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, August 15th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks HFSSC, it's not near you unfortunately.

But I will let you know when I am passing thru your town, and we can do lunch. Should be fairly soon.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7021 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
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