Thank you. I was thinking of that this weekend.
I wonder if his boss would talk to me. That would be helpful in determining where I stand.
At IC this morning I discussed this uncertainty. The hour eventually got around to "does it matter?"
I think I am leaning toward "not really", especially if he isn't willing to get IC himself.
If we can't talk, if I can't believe what he says, if I doubt his sanity (with reasonable cause), then what is the point?
And its not just my safety I have to worry about, but also my son's.
I also think I may have found her. WH asked me to log in the computer as him because "some weird update thingy needed my attention". He was doing dishes so I poked around.
I found some files which were not OF anything that began with her first initial and then had another name. Its the kind of name that could be a first name or a last name.
When I put them together on facebook I found someone that could be her, city, marital status, kid pic, etc. match.
When I searched with her name and town I only found 1 other thing about her from a recent obituary for a family member.
If I have found her I don't really feel better. The family picture she has posted is from 2009 and she's squinting. I don't think I'd recognize her if I saw her.
When I asked WH who S..... was he said "what?", I showed him the files, and he said that is her name. I asked what was up with the files of nothing. He said that is where he has been trying to save these pop-unders from Mylife with her picture on them. Apparently he is blaming Mylife for ruining his life and is trying to give them documentation of this "issue" he has contacted them about. But he didn't understand their instructions for using "print screen" to save screen shots. I asked him if he was really just trying to save a picture of her to let me know and I'd help him before he totally junked up the computer He took that pretty well. Looked like I hit him but said sorry, no, he just wanted the company to show the company they were wrong about their pop-unders.
His rather calm and non-panicked reaction to my asking about the files gives me hope that maybe I can ask for more info just for my own "protection" such as what her car looks like so that I can avoid or BOLO.