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letitout
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just keep hearing how beautiful LT 23 yo slut #2 was and how stylish she was, such beautiful eyes he's ever seen.javascript:AddSmily(' ') I begged him to let me see her on fb and yes she was all of those things, more javascript:AddSmily(' ')I'm sick. Be careful what you ask for. He said she drank a lot. I told him it was because she had to be with you. Bald, hairy, fat, old 63 yo guy. He didn't think so. Men are such in denial.


BW 55, WH 64
2 years of prostitutes.

Posts: 281 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: California
letitout
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry guys, I don't know how to put up those cute face icons.


BW 55, WH 64
2 years of prostitutes.

Posts: 281 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: California
Mousse242
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who cares what they looked like, they're freaking hookers!

Posts: 5473 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: Chicago
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's okay. We get the picture.

Balding, old, fat guy stupidly thinking that a young,dumb slut really wants to be with him because they are in Lurrvve!

Right.

*sigh* There seems to be no end to this delusional crap fest!


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1140 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
authenticnow
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Red  Posted: 4:56 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Letitout,

Please adhere to SI guidelines:

GENERAL STATEMENTS: Please refrain from making statements that generalize gender, WS/OP/BS, race, religion or political alignment. Also do not presume to speak on behalf of other people.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37620 | Registered: Sep 2007
nolight
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Default  Posted: 6:32 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

??

Anyway, letitout it is hard when you compare yourself to OW but remember that she is broken in all the ways that count. Are you currently in R?


Posts: 497 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Hawaii
Thiscantbhapning
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

it is hard when you compare yourself to OW

You're right. It's very hard. Especially when she is 20 years younger than you. I am 2 years out from D-Day and I still struggle with that.


BS (Me)-48
WH-49
COW-28
PA-5 1/2 months
D-Day 5-8-11 (Happy Mother's Day to me)
Married 26 years
DS-24
DD-22
Trying to R
"Maybe this thing was a masterpiece till you tore it all up."

Posts: 20 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Texas
outtanowhere
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Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok, I'm a total rule follower but, I can't figure out what the mod was referring to. Just for future reference.....


BS - 58
SAWH - 61 multiple encounters with prostitutes and other sex workers
Married 37 years
Dday - 2/19/13 - found the emails
He promised me Heaven then put me thru hell

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outtanowhere
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Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just wanted to add that my stupid WH also thought those 20 something years olds were "lusting" after him as he was them. I was simply floored and asked "do you have a mirror"? Ugh! Was the $$$ you paid them to overlook the obvious? The stupidity is dumbfounding!

[This message edited by outtanowhere at 12:56 PM, June 20th (Thursday)]


BS - 58
SAWH - 61 multiple encounters with prostitutes and other sex workers
Married 37 years
Dday - 2/19/13 - found the emails
He promised me Heaven then put me thru hell

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

outtanowhere...

The Moderator was referring to the "Men are such in denial." as a generalization.

Hope that helps


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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outtanowhere
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks DS! I would not have picked up on that but maybe because LIO & I think alike!


BS - 58
SAWH - 61 multiple encounters with prostitutes and other sex workers
Married 37 years
Dday - 2/19/13 - found the emails
He promised me Heaven then put me thru hell

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No problem


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks DS, I was wondering also???

It is not what they look like. It is how he felt of himself. She made him look new and shiney.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 11:15 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He didn't think so. Men are such in denial.

Yes, HE is in denial.

Just know that most men realize the dynamic you are refering to and steer clear of that. We know what a woman like that is up to. A healthy man can spot it a mile away. I'm sorry your man isn't able to.

He said she drank a lot. I told him it was because she had to be with you. Bald, hairy, fat, old 63 yo guy.


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes I think if they were better looking it would make sense

My 60+ couldn't get a younger woman unless he paid for it. Yes, I threw that in his face many times. The one he didn't put $$$ out for was a real disaster, not just unattractive but ugly, only 2 yrs younger than me, and a needy nut case!

There is no accounting for who will stoop so low as to allow themselves to be used this way.

On my final DDay, he dumped her like the POS she was and never looked back.

I really think the younger more attractive ones that go with an older man are just plain lazy. Want someone to take care of them. Well let them have them

See how quick they run when half the money is gone and they get the kids every other week and the alimony goes on month after month! Oh and laundry and bills, and Dr. appts, yes lots of Dr. apts with an older man!!!


BS (me)59 FWH 71
Married 35 years
4 children and 3 grandchildren
5 yrs into R.
Now that he has changed and become the man he should have been all along, why should I start over?

Posts: 560 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: New Jersey
letitout
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry mods about my generalization. I wasn't thinking clearly.


BW 55, WH 64
2 years of prostitutes.

Posts: 281 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No need to apologize here!

We need to vent occasionally

Any way, wayward men are all tooooo typical in their actions. It is very sad, the behavior! If he is still telling you how great she is, let him go to her and let the door hit him in the ass. With the help of your foot!!!


BS (me)59 FWH 71
Married 35 years
4 children and 3 grandchildren
5 yrs into R.
Now that he has changed and become the man he should have been all along, why should I start over?

Posts: 560 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: New Jersey
2oldforthis
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can say: My Bald, hairy, fat, old 63 yo guy, who is in denial.

And then I will add mine to your list and so on and so forth.


He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

Love kills slowly.


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nofool4u
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just keep hearing how beautiful LT 23 yo slut #2 was and how stylish she was, such beautiful eyes he's ever seen.

??? Why do you put up with this? Is he professing his appreciation for the beauty of his affair partner after you had already found out????


Me - fBS

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