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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you can make a TSA agent smile and acknowledge your pleasantness anyone else is a piece of cake...

This is too funny. I travel a lot, although not as much as I used to, and when I'm traveling alone, my "game" is to wink at them and see if they smile. I'm pretty good at getting them to crack.

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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oial perspective can be such a funny thing! As someone who has been way up and down in the confidence area I can understand the reluctance. At times it seems like hearing 'no thank you' one more time feels like a stone too heavy to carry around BUT if you look at it a little differently maybe its just a pebble. Here is what I try to tell myself; What have I really lost here? How has this changed my life? My kids still love me. My job is awesome. My family is healthy AND they support me emmotionally. My faith is strong and I still have soo much to offer in life. So not getting that date tonight really hasnt changed my life. Just a thought. Believe in you dude!! We do!!! So next time go ask her! who cares if she is not ready for your awesomeness!!!

me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
3 wonderful but hurt kids

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Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(admittedly, I wouldn't have walked up to her and asked to exchange pics of our junk).

But ... how do you expect to get pictures of her junk?

Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous

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