The "guided communication" seems stiff and elementary-school like to me, so I instead jumped straight to email and sent her a message.
For you eHarmony users, do you like the guided communication? Does a guy who wants to jump straight to email seem overly pushy?
The woman I messaged accepted my request for email, which eHarmony played up as her being just about ready to marry me, but she did not write me a response. I'm not sure what proper (or expected) protocol is. The ball is still firmly in her court, right?
The ball is still firmly in her court, right?
Uh, no. No, the ball is firmly in YOUR court. You asked permission to email her. She said yes. Now you are supposed to email her.
So, that makes me think the ball's in her court. But it's all a little vague. Haven't figured out the workings of this dating site yet.