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User Topic: I am officially divorced!
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As I told my siblings, tonight it's time to party like it's 1998 (the last year that I was single before I married Dopey).

I got my papers today, on my last day of teaching. This is the start of a beautiful summer!

One more round for good measure:


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3539 | Registered: Oct 2011
million pieces
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Member # 27539
Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1231 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
DeadMumWalking
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats, best wishes for your new life!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2538 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
stronggirl72
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Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I should be getting mine any day now. In fact, they could be in the mailbox now. Enjoy your freedom!


"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."

DIVORCED!!


Posts: 154 | Registered: Oct 2012
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! I was happy as hell when I got mine... here's a for you, too!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15362 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
bbee
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6645 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo-hoo!!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4554 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24437 | Registered: Aug 2011
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wishing you a wonderful NB!!

Posts: 33919 | Registered: Mar 2011
Sweetness8
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations and happy everything to you! It's great to hear that this horrid process has an actual ending at some point.


BW: 43 WH: 39 We are done.
Married 15 years with two kids: Cool Boy is 10 and Auburn Girl is 14
D-Day #1: 9-2009, 6-month EA/PA with H.S. friend. Did it ever end? D-day #2 on 5-2-13: Found OW's current pic on his cell.

Posts: 80 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Zoo of the New
Coraline
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012
scotslass
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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats. I know how you are feeling!!!!!
Enjoy


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats. I hope mine are there when I get home from vacation.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1232 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:30 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17158 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Here's to your new beginning :)


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1285 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
SBB
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I cannot wait for that feeling.

I too will party like its the first half of 2002.

A toast to you!


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5441 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8337 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
gma56
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Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The first taste of freedom !

Congrats !
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

Posts: 20323 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
Pippy
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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wooohoooo. Life gets better from now on.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


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