Topic: I am officially divorced!
Member # 33698
| Posted: 4:46 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
As I told my siblings, tonight it's time to party like it's 1998 (the last year that I was single before I married Dopey).
I got my papers today, on my last day of teaching. This is the start of a beautiful summer!
One more round for good measure:
BS (Me) 39
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3332 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 27539
| Posted: 4:52 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Posts: 1115 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
Member # 25341
| Posted: 5:00 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Congrats, best wishes for your new life!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...
Posts: 2468 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Member # 37293
| Posted: 5:01 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
I should be getting mine any day now. In fact, they could be in the mailbox now. Enjoy your freedom!
"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."
Posts: 134 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 10552
| Posted: 5:02 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Congratulations! I was happy as hell when I got mine... here's a for you, too!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15226 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
Member # 17840
| Posted: 5:15 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.
Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1
Posts: 6618 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
Member # 34697
| Posted: 5:20 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Posts: 4042 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 33226
| Posted: 5:22 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
You can call me NIK
"Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in." -Cohen
Posts: 21919 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 31528
| Posted: 5:53 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Wishing you a wonderful NB!!
Posts: 29561 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 25674
| Posted: 7:13 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Congratulations and happy everything to you! It's great to hear that this horrid process has an actual ending at some point.
BW: 43 WH: 39 We are done.
Married 15 years with two kids: Cool Boy is 10 and Auburn Girl is 14
D-Day #1: 9-2009, 6-month EA/PA with H.S. friend. Did it ever end? D-day #2 on 5-2-13: Found OW's current pic on his cell.
Posts: 80 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Zoo of the New
Member # 36434
| Posted: 7:25 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.
Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 39204
| Posted: 10:11 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Congrats. I know how you are feeling!!!!!
3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
Me. - moving on and upward !!!
Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
Member # 30742
| Posted: 11:57 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Congrats. I hope mine are there when I get home from vacation.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Posts: 1143 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Member # 36654
| Posted: 12:20 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.
Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Member # 20150
| Posted: 2:30 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Celebrating 60 years on Earth
Posts: 16488 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 36445
| Posted: 6:24 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
Yay! Here's to your new beginning :)
"You can never have too much happy!"
Posts: 1075 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 35229
| Posted: 7:56 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
I cannot wait for that feeling.
I too will party like its the first half of 2002.
A toast to you!
“If things start happening, don't worry, don't stew, just go right along and you'll start happening too.” -Dr Seuss
Posts: 4151 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 30989
| Posted: 1:53 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
WH(Mr. Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS17
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke
Posts: 7881 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Member # 19595
| Posted: 4:31 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
The first taste of freedom !
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.
Posts: 20264 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
Member # 16482
| Posted: 6:29 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
Wooohoooo. Life gets better from now on.
I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.
Posts: 9583 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
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