Topic: I am officially divorced!
Member # 33698
| Posted: 4:46 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
As I told my siblings, tonight it's time to party like it's 1998 (the last year that I was single before I married Dopey).
I got my papers today, on my last day of teaching. This is the start of a beautiful summer!
One more round for good measure:
BS (Me) 39
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3045 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 27539
| Posted: 4:52 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Me - 41
2 kids, 8 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Posts: 1036 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
Member # 25341
| Posted: 5:00 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Congrats, best wishes for your new life!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Posts: 2225 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Member # 37293
| Posted: 5:01 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
I should be getting mine any day now. In fact, they could be in the mailbox now. Enjoy your freedom!
"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."
Posts: 98 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 10552
| Posted: 5:02 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Congratulations! I was happy as hell when I got mine... here's a for you, too!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15045 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Just a Cali girl
Member # 17840
| Posted: 5:15 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.
Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1
Posts: 6604 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
Member # 34697
| Posted: 5:20 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Posts: 3607 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 33226
| Posted: 5:22 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 19287 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: "Is this heaven?" ;-)
Member # 31528
| Posted: 5:53 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Wishing you a wonderful NB!!
There are still good times to be had.
Were together 7+yrs, Ended R.
Posts: 26475 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 25674
| Posted: 7:13 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Congratulations and happy everything to you! It's great to hear that this horrid process has an actual ending at some point.
BW: 43 WH: 39 We are done.
Married 15 years with two kids: Cool Boy is 10 and Auburn Girl is 14
D-Day #1: 9-2009, 6-month EA/PA with H.S. friend. Did it ever end? D-day #2 on 5-2-13: Found OW's current pic on his cell.
Posts: 80 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Zoo of the New
Member # 36434
| Posted: 7:25 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.
Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 39204
| Posted: 10:11 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Congrats. I know how you are feeling!!!!!
3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
Me. - moving on and upward !!!
Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
Member # 30742
| Posted: 11:57 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013|
Congrats. I hope mine are there when I get home from vacation.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Posts: 1091 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Member # 36654
| Posted: 12:20 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.
Posts: 2312 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Member # 20150
| Posted: 2:30 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Be. Here. Now.
Posts: 16041 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 36445
| Posted: 6:24 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
Yay! Here's to your new beginning :)
"You can never have too much happy!"
Posts: 916 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 35229
| Posted: 7:56 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
I cannot wait for that feeling.
I too will party like its the first half of 2002.
A toast to you!
“If things start happening, don't worry, don't stew, just go right along and you'll start happening too.” -Dr Seuss
Posts: 3564 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 30989
| Posted: 1:53 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
WH(Mr. Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS17
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke
(Please excuse typos; my tablet is possessed.)
Posts: 7478 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Member # 19595
| Posted: 4:31 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
The first taste of freedom !
It's my life now, my choices, and my mistakes to make.
“The greatest challenge in life is discovering who you are. The second greatest is being happy with what you find.”
Cheating isn't a mistake,it's a choice.
Posts: 20221 | Registered: May 2008
Member # 16482
| Posted: 6:29 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013|
Wooohoooo. Life gets better from now on.
I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.
Posts: 9485 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
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