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User Topic: Who was this person???
Marley76
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It just blows my mind that that I really had no idea how cold this person I have been sharing a life with really is. I received a text message (cause that is the only way the coward communicates) from him re: bills and such. I am here trying to tie up loose end for him and make sure he's not left with no electricity and god dammed iTunes. And he mocks me. He called me mother Teresa and said he has been really good to me and my kids and that I should stop screwing HIM over. I've always paid my way in this relationship. We lived together and I paid half the rent and half the bills. I'm not paying the final bills on anything cause I didn't cause this seperation. And I'm taking all my furniture and my fridge. He is seeing this not as the committed relationship I thought it was but apparently like he was just having pity on me. Like im doing something to him cause im leaving and not putting up with his betrayals. But u know what. I told him- thank you for being kind to my children and I don't regret a thing. I appreciate the good person that you were. But this person in front of me I owe nothing too.
Sorry for the rant. It prob makes no sense. He's a narcissist and its still shocking to me.


Me: BSO 37yrs old
Him: Old enough to know better.
3 years -raising my 2 daughters and his son
Dday#1 6/7/13 Dday#2 6/9/13
R: not a chance
The further she walked, the stronger her stride became and the louder her broken heart sang. -anonymous.

Posts: 32 | Registered: Jun 2013
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BTDT...

I was paying for EVERYTHING this past year while POS was unemployed. When he walked out I not only cut him off, but I stopped paying all bills in his name. He was royally butt hurt and thought I was screwing him over. Um, no, I just stopped the gravy train when you left after being caught with OW#3, asshole! But because he is unemployed, he is getting screwed over, but it is not my problem as I was fired from being his "helpmate" in life. He is a big boy and will just have to figure it out on his own.

Rant on! The way these assholes skew reality to support their way of thinking is absolutely mind blowing!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 978 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Housefulloflove
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Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I got to the point of your post that said "he's a narcissist" I went aha....no wonder all of that was so familiar! I'm still shocked that when a poster seems to be posting about my stbx personally, they are usually also talking about someone who is a narc. They are jackasses with almost identical black souls.

It is amazing how "good" those masks they wore were in the beginning and how brilliant they are at distracting people from the cracks and eventually the large missing chunks of those masks they wear.

It's so hard to accept that people like them actually walk around pretending to be normal when really they are missing a huge part of what makes a human a human.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
JessicaFL127
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Suspicious  Posted: 8:12 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't help him with anything. He is mocking you while you try to pay for his electric bill and his Itunes?? Fuck him, let him sing to himself in the dark.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

my NPD XWH did the exact same thing.

It was so shocking to me how someone who allegedly loved me so much could turn on me like that.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3190 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
Marley76
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm cracking up laughing thinking of his stupid ass sitting here in the dark with no furniture and a blank iPhone!!! Hahahahahah


Me: BSO 37yrs old
Him: Old enough to know better.
3 years -raising my 2 daughters and his son
Dday#1 6/7/13 Dday#2 6/9/13
R: not a chance
The further she walked, the stronger her stride became and the louder her broken heart sang. -anonymous.

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