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User Topic: What do you do when your H is out of town?
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Watch a Lifetime movie marathon about killers, of course.

Definitely going to double lock the doors and windows tonight. And check them twice!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha I've done the same! Stay safe

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wouldn't worry too much. The bears should take care of most of the killers


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When I was away from home as a road warrior or when my W was away, I too watched movies I couldn't watch when she was around - a little porn, but mainly classic movies that were tense thrillers or violent. Classics, not Lifetime.


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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Mauimom1
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Content  Posted: 10:42 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I absolutely do not cook dinner. Take out for the kiddos every night!

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stilllovinghim
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Default  Posted: 1:26 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Either watch something like Steel Magnolias or Terms of Endearment.

I've been known to also meticulously clean the house and plan my escape route keeping in mind where the nearest knives were in case I was attacked when my H used to work nights. Why clean the house meticulously you ask? So that: 1) if the cops show up with a camera crew the house would look nice...aside from my dead body and 2) its easier to dust for prints and collect evidence. Swear to Christ that was my train of thought.

[This message edited by stilllovinghim at 1:26 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)]


“You have a choice. Live or die.Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. Every time you don't throw yourself down the stairs, that's a choice. Every time you don't crash your car, you re-enlist.”
― Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:48 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I once watched The Signs at my dad's house when I was alone - at 3am.... in a room with glass doors with no shutters.

Gluttons for punishment, we are.


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 1:55 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I used to wait for him to call, while I slept on his side of the bed...after I set house alarm.

One night house alarm goes off at like 3am. It's me and kids, SHIT! I grab XH's bat from under his side of bed and venture out of the bedroom. If I didn't have kids - I would've laid there crying/whizzing self...but I had kids.

Alarm people call - WBN, is everything ok? I say, I don't know, I have a wood bat and am walking downstairs.

Alarm people - ok, well we can't really stay on the phone.

WBN - you g.d. better!!! I have 2 babies, you are NOT letting me go!

Dude stays on.

Come to find my silly ass cat clawed open a door that triggered the alarm! Oops! TTYL, alarm peeps! I'm out.



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