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User Topic: omg.......I have a dinner date tonight!
She11ybeanz
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Content  Posted: 8:36 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So....I told you all that there were 2 guys had been talking to on the OLD site! One didn't work out after more emails but the other one told me he would call me Friday night... and I was home cleaning and re-arranging my kitchen and cleaning it from top to bottom.....and it had gotten to be around 9pm and I thought he wasn't going to call.....and then BAM! The phone rings.... and at 1st I thought..... "its kinda late...." but...I figured I had nothing to lose! So, I answered it!

The 1st thing he did was apologize for calling so late and asked if it was still okay to talk! (thoughtful!) So, I of course said yes! Then, we talked...about tons of stuff....family and our kids... and he told me jokes...

So....he ended it telling me that him and his 6 year old son are going to the beach next week but that he would love to take me to dinner before he goes.....and we make a date for this evening!

He works as a scientist/engineer at a local university, has a PHD.... is a RUNNER , has a little boy (single dad), likes horror movies (I LOVE horror movies), and seems really sweet and has a good sense of humor! We seem to have a lot in common!

This will be only my 2nd date since leaving Piper's sperm donor over a year ago....

I'm nervous.... but excited!!!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck and keep us posted!!


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1229 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will.... I kinda feel like Bambi trying to walk for the 1st time when it comes to dates! Its been so long and even though I'm a talker by nature..... it still makes me nervous ....


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2710 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have fun. The first OLD date is the hardest. I was a wreck before my first one (needed a glass of wine for medicinal purposes prior to his arrival) First dates have become easier and less nerve wracking with time and experience and now they are just fine! I get excited about it, but not sooooo very excited about them.

If it works out that you want a second date Yippee! And, if it doesn't work that way, that is okay too. Don't forget to be the chooser and not the choosee!

Keep us posted!

(I have a first dinner date tonight with a new OLD guy too )

[This message edited by better4me at 11:26 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)]


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Steady as she goes, Shelly. Enjoy yourself and keep your eyes open.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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She11ybeanz
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Concerned  Posted: 2:47 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, crap. He called a few hours ago and cancelled. I understand though. He and his son are going to the beach tomorrow and normally he drops his son off on Sunday nights with his mom but he said it seemed kinda silly to drop him off overnight just to go pick him up again the next morning so he is keeping him. He said he would still like to take me out though when he gets back from the beach....


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2710 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
million pieces
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bummer that he cancelled, but that is a pretty legit reason. See, only another parent would get that :)


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1230 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, June 23rd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah....I'm totally okay with it... just a little disappointed! But, I suppose that's normal!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2710 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seems odd to me. He knew about the beach plans before he made the date with you. While it was silly to drop his son off to his mom's for just a short time, he had made plans with you during that time. Oh well, nothing you can do about it!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah...I thought it was a little odd too.... and I was totally bummed about it...but oh well...


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2710 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
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