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tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 4:04 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Somebody recently told me that ex-shat said he had to get out of our marriage because...ready for this?...I was driving him to commit suicide!
Holy shit! To think that I have so much power over another person that I can make them want to commit suicide!! Watch out world, I am one evil bitch! 
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 4:12 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Hey, you can't have that super power.....that one is mine 
I have heard this one before too. Sad ain't it? They can't even accept responsibility for their own thoughts.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:28 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I'm probably a really bad person for saying this (especially on Sunday), but it's almost too bad when someone like him realizes something like that in time.
<slap> oh, really can't believe that actually came out on the page.... 
You are one powerful, evil bitch!!
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
roughroadahead ( member #36060) posted at 4:59 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I wonder if they ever realize how utterly ridiculous that sounds when said out loud to a normal person?
Probably not...
BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
Helen of Troy ( member #26419) posted at 5:05 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Yeah ok if a spouse is so horrible that it causes a "drive to commit suicide", then by all means don't try marital counseling and don't ask for a divorce. Have an affair instead! because that solves everything.
Who cares about integrity or causing pain to others?
Loyalty2Liberty ( member #36714) posted at 5:09 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I wonder if they ever realize how utterly ridiculous that sounds when said out loud to a normal person?
Nope. Immunity to reality is their superpower.
[This message edited by Loyalty2Liberty at 11:10 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)]
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:54 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
:face:palm:
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
peridot ( member #18334) posted at 6:01 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Welcome to the super power club!
I think...therefore, I'm single.
It is what it is.
scotslass ( member #39204) posted at 6:07 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Can I join the "SPC" ?
Me. - moving on and upward !!!
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 6:16 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Oh I do love it when they show everyone else what fuckwits they are.
I mean besides infidelity - just in general.
The Irish call it "showing his arse".
Its really not that hard to keep it in your pants dude.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 7:45 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Its really not that hard to keep it in your pants dude.
If they could all keep their own parts in their own pants, there wouldn't be a SI site...
Tesla, I might want to introduce you to someone.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 7:52 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Tesla, I might want to introduce you to someone.
I was thinking the same thing.. I'm wondering how far your powers work 
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 7:52 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Apparently my super power is the double post.. Sigh..
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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 8:08 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Well, if that's how he feels around you, then I'm glad to hear that you've been using your powers for good.
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 8:30 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
The power dynamic between you and your ex reminds me so much of me and my ex. In both cases it was a weak, victim-minded man with a strong, intelligent, capable woman who for some reason closed her eyes and lowered herself to his level... For reasons none of us understand.
It's good to be rid of them, isn't it?
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 9:33 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
In both cases it was a weak, victim-minded man with a strong, intelligent, capable woman who for some reason closed her eyes and lowered herself to his level... For reasons none of us understand.
Sadly, so incredibly true!
And yes, feels great to be freed of such a dead weight.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 9:48 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I can cause heart attacks. In fact, I have caused heart attacks. Without even trying. I'm a Super Bitch. Feel the powah!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
TattoodChinaDoll ( member #34602) posted at 9:56 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I have that power, too! Except mine only effects him after the infidelity and he has to deal with the aftermath...ya know...a heartbroken wife who can't rug sweep everything to make HIM feel better. So if Tesla can't get him...I will.
Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 10:09 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
I wonder if they ever realize how utterly ridiculous that sounds when said out loud to a normal person?
Nope. Immunity to reality is their superpower.
^^^^ THIS.
My little super power is to cause hurricanes to hit our state. All 5 of the hurricanes in 2005 and most of them since then all hit on his weekends with the kids. It was all my fault. He even told the judge, his lawyer...
Sigh...I also caused his High Blood Pressure...I think I caused her lupus also.
Just ask him.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 10:11 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
He even told the judge, his lawyer...
Oh no he didn't!!
My only superpower is the one that caused him to cheat. I think we all have that.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
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