DD 6/26/10 (he broke down & confessed)
DD#2 3/14/11 H in OW's car
TT 7/1/11 (NC broken, through emails)
I'm sorry Ow was so unkind and I don't understand why there are people in the world with us, walking the earth as we do, who have so different a list of values and concept of right and wrong. Or just common decency.
If a man or woman is married, shouldn't it mean something? Stay away! Not available! and so on...but it seems so common, nowadays, even though I sound like my father.
I only had one contact with Perv's OW, I would not allow anymore. I didn't read much of what she texted, but she was basically starting a catfight when he tried to come back and pretend to reconcile. It was all lies anyway and she "has him".
But the more my own fog is lifting, I'm finding that someone who can do all that he did and know me as he did, well, I just can't be with him anymore.
I don't like you're H's reply either, and hope he will work towards respect for you and your marriage.
I still think that marriage can be a good thing and that it should be honored and respected, by the people in it and by everyone else.
I wish you peace.
The only thing that stays the same, is change. -M. Etheridge
His defense of her messaging him is a big red flag. It shows he does not yet understand the pain he has caused you and is not serious about R.
Read about the 180 (Healing Library BS FAQs #11).
im sure her husband would agree
Why hasn't your WH blocked this whore?
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.