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User Topic: 7 months out
libertyrocks
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

7 months and 10 days out...
I'm not sure I'm going to make it with him. I don't think I want to...I think it will be harder once that one year mark comes.

How does he think he can just fall back in love with me?? Because he doesn't want to be a 35 year old loser single dad...

Feeling sick and tired today.

I'm usually in good spirits, but not today. Got really bad triggers all weekend long. He was great at being remorseful. But, I'm afraid it's not going to be enough.


Me-BW 35. STBXH-35,active alcoholic, suspected NPD SA. 2 little boys. M 6yrs T13.
Year+ false R & TT from Dday1 Nov 2012 IEA - Feb 2014 count at 10 OW PA's 1LTA (all W lied to) for 3 years that I know of.
Filed for D.

Posts: 816 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((libertyrocks))))))


Me - 48; FWH - 50
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 26
4yo GS & 14 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/14(DD30) and 2yo GD(DD26). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 4796 | Registered: May 2007
SuperDuperWonderboy
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

7 months was a tough time for me as well. Sorry you are struggling.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.


Posts: 1263 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Everett
libertyrocks
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Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone.

I like where you'r at, wonderboy. You're most recent profile update gives me hope...

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 2:35 PM, June 24th (Monday)]


Me-BW 35. STBXH-35,active alcoholic, suspected NPD SA. 2 little boys. M 6yrs T13.
Year+ false R & TT from Dday1 Nov 2012 IEA - Feb 2014 count at 10 OW PA's 1LTA (all W lied to) for 3 years that I know of.
Filed for D.

Posts: 816 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
LA44
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((libertyrocks))...sorry you are feeling down.

Do you not believe he is falling in love with you? Or do you just not care?

LA


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 1778 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
libertyrocks
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi LA44.

I really don't give a shit anymore...He already burned me. I think when one's dealing with an alchoholic serial cheater, it's a little different. He didn't even love any of them like a semi-normal human being...just drinking and fucking. Sorry for the foul language. This place is my venting place. If you met me IRL, I don't swear or even say bad things. Ever. The foul language is my alter-ego.


Me-BW 35. STBXH-35,active alcoholic, suspected NPD SA. 2 little boys. M 6yrs T13.
Year+ false R & TT from Dday1 Nov 2012 IEA - Feb 2014 count at 10 OW PA's 1LTA (all W lied to) for 3 years that I know of.
Filed for D.

Posts: 816 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh that's okay LR. I am not offended by the "colourful" language. I said things in the last 6 months that I didn't know I had in me!

Hugs to you, girl.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 1778 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
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