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User Topic: Should you forgive WS (by: Jada Pinkett Smith)
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@sal

Yeah I understand that. I would not trade with my W either. When I have bad days I can look at her and she can give me an apology. She can show me she hurts. It just doesn't seem as bad as what I have experienced.

I am sure it is rough knowing you hurt someone so bad, but again if we stay do they really have to deal with this long term ? Or do they look at it like . . "whew, I messed up, but hey I came through without any lasting consequences."

Generalizing I guess, but it just feels as if R and forgiveness absolves the A. Getting a new improved M, in spite of the catalyst, seems to balm a lot of that hurt.


Me-35 her-35

DS 1, DD 6
Dday 8/31/11. ONS that occurred 3 years earlier. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.


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