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User Topic: quick little update
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The good news: my xWH has been dis-invited from the big event at my work in 2 weeks time. So YAY! no risk of running into him or having him harass me in any way.

The meh news: I really like TG, the guy I'm dating. But he's got a job offer further away and while at first when we discussed it I was asking him to stay, I'm realizing it's better if he takes it. He's got some financial stuff he needs to clean up that this job will do, and I think his ego is taking a beating over this (his ability to earn and solve his own problems) and it's caused him to be brusque (causing me to be ridiculous in turn) and ... after much reflection, when he and I next speak I'm just going to lay that out. And tell him to take it. It'll mean an LDR for the time being and if it's meant to be, we'll survive it.

"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ah....the figuring out of relationship issues...tough stuff. Good that you've gotten some insight!

So glad your other problem went away!!

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52

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Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a relief! I'm thrilled for you cayc.

I hope your discussion goes well.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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