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User Topic: First date, again
OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I'm not comfortable getting into the specifics of why I was not physically attracted. Somehow feels disrespectful, when she was attracted to me.


BH, now divorced

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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I'm not comfortable getting into the specifics of why I was not physically attracted. Somehow feels disrespectful, when she was attracted to me.

Maybe she was just being nice and acting like she was attracted.


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She messaged me right away after the date, wanting to get together again soon, so yeah, she was attracted.

It's water under the bridge now. She responded gracefully to my saying I didn't feel a match. So much better to rip the bandaid off quick than to take someone on a pity ride.

[This message edited by OnceInALifetime at 10:54 PM, June 26th (Wednesday)]


BH, now divorced

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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, are you (not) saying that she was overweight?

I'm curious about this too. No 2x4's - just curious.
I'm not "fit" but not way overweight. If I lose 10 I'm in great shape esp for my height. But I don't have any body shots on my profile.

Eta: I don't think it's disrespectful to be honest if you are expecting honest feedback. It only helps in the end. Just my thought.

[This message edited by persevere at 11:18 PM, June 26th (Wednesday)]


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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