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User Topic: Patience: What are you waiting for?
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am waiting on my relationship with my SO to become permanent (marriage). I know we both need some healing before then, so I'm going to counseling. I'm trying to relish every minute with SO but I'm chomping at the bit

I'm waiting to have enough money saved up to finally, after 1.5 years living with my parents, buy a house for me and the kids. In the mean time I'm enjoying my parents help with the kids.

I'm ready for my life to start!!....again

Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012

My ipad does a lot of crazy typos.

Posts: 651 | Registered: Jan 2012
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am waiting for the D to be final. I am currently at the Grand Canyon with my kids. I will do more travel.

I have a Masters degree, a job that I enjoy. I am waiting to be free of him so I can financially do things I want like buy a house for me and my kids.

I will continue to travel, as it is my great joy. I am working on losing more weight and getting healthy. I like dating because I enjoy every bit of restaurants, hiking, nite life and just the company of others.

[This message edited by torn2bits at 9:29 AM, June 30th (Sunday)]

Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Filling my time with donating marital items that are no longer needed in my new life ... While I am waiting for the 16th and the end of this marriage.

I have been hired by a school district so I am waiting to get started there ... filling my time with research and paperwork.

Even though the D isn't final I am waiting to spread my wings and get out and start socializing again ... But in the meantime I am enjoying getting to know me again and relaxing just being me without all the stress of STBXWH being around ... I love the 1000 mile distance between us!

Posts: 387 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
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