why on earth would he say "I'll take the test, then I will move out"
Simple---because he is not remorseful.
He very well may have told you everything now(although I doubt it), but he doesn't get it. He sure as hell isn't going to put your feelings in front of his.
So what do you do from here?
Continue with your personal healing. Emotionally detach from him until he commits to you and the marriage. Believe me, you will know when his remorse comes from the heart. You will not have to search for it.
Ask yourself--do you really want to live with someone who treats you with such disrespect? BH-47
2 boys-17 & 20(special needs)
Married 21yrs.(together 27yrs.)
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary Puckett
D-Day: 9/18/09 D-Day#2: 2/19/10 The Marriage Killer: 6/6/11
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