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User Topic: Gracias
hardlessons
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Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wanted to take a moment and thank all of you who have participated in the surgery to remove my head from ass this past year or so. You should know who you are and I thank you. Thank you to those who love mustard on their French fried taters, you also remind me of where I have been and where I donít want to go back to. Thank you for helping me create a marriage I never dreamed of and being someone I can be ok with, honestly did not like who I was and had no idea how to stop the stupidity. I probably could have posted this in Recon, but Wayward is my home. Came to realize that not too long ago and I am cool with that, cool with the fact that this is probably the most real place in the world other than with my wife and boys. Even if I hadnít had an A this is where I belonged because my thought processes and stinkin thinkin made me a dry adulterer regardless.

Recently someone asked ďWhatís wrong with that guy?Ē And actually I donít think for the past 2-3 months I have been in a better place than where I am at now in my entire life. We have a ton of life changes coming as the company I work for is sucking bad(management sucks) so I started looking and was able to find another job, but it will take us out of the Phoenix area, first time in my life living outside of the valley plus I may need to stay there while TG stays here for a month, so new job, new home, boys have recently left, back in school getting my MBA. Crazy! So again, before I get caught in the craziness I wanted to say thanks to SI and those who participate for giving us the opportunity to go through ALL these changes together as a family.


Me WH
Wife Tired Girl
3 adult sons
"a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed."

Posts: 880 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Arizona
JustDesserts
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wanted to take a moment and thank all of you who have participated in the surgery to remove my head from ass this past year or so.

Please let me know your doctor's names, phone numbers, and what insurance they accept. It's become painfully clear I need a cranioanalectomy, and fast.


2 year EA/PA. DDay 3/12. Broke NC 6/13 w/one stupid 5 line e-mail (which brought me to SI). Me: WH, 50. Her: BW, 49. Married 19 years. Two kids. Dog. Reconciling...together.

Posts: 403 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Suburbia, New England, USA
uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome post. This site is a lifesaver. You and TG have been such a great resource for so many, along with many other awesome folks.


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


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20WrongsVs1
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Like"


fWW: 42
BH: 52
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response thereís a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

Posts: 1046 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
Skan
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I second the LIKE button!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4586 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HLessons - You've come a long way in a little over a year. I really appreciate your candidness and straightforwardness on all of your posts, even at the risk of pissing someone off. I think your perspective on things is refreshing and challenging. You've done good, and you've personally helped me out on more than one occasion. So, I guess I'm saying "Gracias" right back at ya!

Keep up the good work!


"I would rather take a punch than not give you a shot. I'd rather find out who you are than who you're not."

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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post, HL.

Add me to the list of those you and TG have given much needed help. So big thank yous to you both.


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

Posts: 1393 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
hardlessons
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

even at the risk of pissing someone off.

LOL, thanks. While that typically isn't my intent, I do blow that up sometimes.

Thank you for all your help Losfer as a fellow Maiden fan I might have picked Wrathchild as a name if the one I have wasn't so damn appropriate!!

[This message edited by hardlessons at 3:51 PM, June 28th (Friday)]


Me WH
Wife Tired Girl
3 adult sons
"a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed."

Posts: 880 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Arizona
KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have been one of the best resources SI has had to offer, sir. Thank YOU for what YOU have done.


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
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"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

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