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User Topic: Feeling a Little Sorry For Myself
Elaine2012
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So today is my birthday. I was happy to see that I was wished a Happy Birthday in the Fun and Games forum! That brightened my morning!

I'm not one to announce my birthday. So really it makes no sense that I'm feeling sorry for myself. Without mentioning it is my birthday I asked a group of friends who get together most Friday evening, if we were meeting this week, turns out everyone has plans. Even if they didn't know I was still looking forward to being with friends.

With my girls all living out of state I won't be with them. Checked the mail and not a single birthday card! I did get a wish from a CC and my auto insurance company!

Last year I was with my mom for my birthday the only time in my adult life I spent my birthday with my mother. Turned out to be the last time it would ever happen.

It was after I went home that my world feel apart. I then went on to have the worst year of my entire life, bar none.

So I have decided that I will take myself out to a movie and dinner. And wish myself my own Happy Birthday! And I dream about the plans I have for a having a better year this year.

ETA: I should mention that I wouldn't have made it through this year without some of the most amazing friends that have surrounded me with love friendship and concern!

[This message edited by Elaine2012 at 2:00 PM, June 28th (Friday)]


Me- 53
WH- 57
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

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lostmommy
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday! (((Elaine2012)))


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It sounds like you're doing OK Have fun, enjoy yourself and make it an annual tradition. I celebrate my birthday for the entire month leading up to the day.

Happy Birthday!!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry, hon. Summer is a tricky time to get people together - -we're all running in so many directions.

I hope that you treat yourself to something nice today - we ALL deserve that.


(((Elaine2012)))


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

Posts: 16397 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Elaine))

Happy birthday!
I go to the movies by myself and quite enjoy it. I think it's great that you will use the day as a jumping off point, visualizing your new life.

BTW, I'm a photography buff as well. I love catching moments.


Me-BW 50
Him-STBXWH

2 Ddays and lots of TT
divorcing

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken


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ladies_first
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Checked the mail and not a single birthday card!

Birthday cards may become extinct due to the electronic age, so I wouldn't take it personally.

Have a Happy, joyous birthday.


"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday Elaine, may the upcoming year bring you much happiness and joy.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4847 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 6:39 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday, Elaine! Treat yourself to something decadent and enjoy just pleasing yourself today!

You are not alone. You are with your best friend, your personal cheering section, your silliest companion, the keeper of all your dreams and secrets, and your most steadfast supporter. And that is YOU.

Celebrate you and all you are!

Hugs!!!


Me: Looking forward to the future
Him: Left behind in the past

Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling


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kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday to you! And kudos for spoiling yourself a bit with dinner and a movie. If I lived near you I would totally hang with you. Instead, I'll have a drink and toast to you - here's to a new beginning over this next year - all the best Elaine!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday! I'm drinking a beer in your honor tonight


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4552 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday!!!


You can call me NIK

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Elaine2012
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone for the birthday wishes and the toasts!

SadinAz I like the idea of the annual tradition. Even the month long celebration would be fun.

One of the best things about the movie by myself I didn't have to share my popcorn. And I liked the movie.

gypsybird87 I'm finding this to be so true! I'm have discovered it can be about me for now. I really am getting better at cheering for myself.

You are not alone. You are with your best friend, your personal cheering section, your silliest companion, the keeper of all your dreams and secrets, and your most steadfast supporter. And that is YOU.


Me- 53
WH- 57
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 285 | Registered: Jul 2012
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