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jrc1963
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Question  Posted: 1:33 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

cans strategically placed throughout my house.... so how come I'm the only one who ever puts anything into them???


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DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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Posts: 24330 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
letitout
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Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

IDN what happened, but I started to type this and it disappeared.

But anyway, I don't have an answer, but I can definitely relate. It's as if no one can "see" the trash cans, or maybe they think their art?

All my stuff in my house gets laid down wherever and never gets put away, they walk all over things, including trash.

My house would be on the show ""hoarders" if it wasn't for the magic trash fairy that comes to pick it up.

I thought I taught them better. Maybe in time it will change.


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2 years of prostitutes.

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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Two boys: 17 and 13
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At my house, it's hampers. Hampers surrounded by piles of dirty laundry that died horrible deaths before reaching sanctuary.


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, you are currently living alone... No?


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osxgirl
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

letitout -

I have a suggestion - replace the "Magic Trash Fairy" with the "evil trash gremlin".

Instead of trash just magically disappearing altogether, it should magically transport itself to the bed of the culprit who left it behind.

Along with that, I suggest giving in to the route my mom took with my brother when he was in high school - she got tired of nagging him about cleaning his room, so she just started closing the door instead. In fact, I think she told him that she would leave him alone as long as the door stayed shut and he didn't leave dishes/food in there that might attract critters and creepy crawlies.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, you are currently living alone... No?
No. DS' rental fell through, and he's back with me for the time being.


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Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
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letitout
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

osxgirl:

"evil trash gremlin"
. I like that idea of putting their things on their bed. I'm going to start tonight!


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2 years of prostitutes.

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