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summerain
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Default  Posted: 3:52 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When my wh butt dialled me and I've been listening to a static boring conversation for 20 mins


OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

Posts: 818 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Australia
stillhere09
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Member # 24924
Default  Posted: 6:44 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know the feeling.


Me-50 BW
Him-55,STBXWH

Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M


Posts: 3020 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
Putto
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

:hug:

I once listened to a 15 minute voicemail accidentally left by WS while he was driving, then making idle conversation at the credit union.

Yes, its a sign of lack of trust, but also its an opportunity for him to make a deposit into the "trust bank" without him actually knowing.


I don't say much but I lurk around a lot. Thank you for baring your souls here, you've said the words I couldn't find and you've helped me heal more than I can say.

Me - BS
Him - FWS, serial long term EAs


Posts: 71 | Registered: Jan 2013
circleoflife
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would do the same thing!


Me BW (36)
WH (39)
together 16 years
2 kids: 6 DD & 10 month DS
Dday:4/18/13
TT: 4/26/13
TT: 5/6/13
more TT: 6/13/13
more TT: 7/9/13

Posts: 40 | Registered: Jun 2013
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did the same thing several years ago. Butt dial, I kept listening. Heard driving sounds, heard him insulting other drivers, heard him having a conversation with himself (he did this sometimes, and it's one reason why I sometimes think he's got a split personality). Kept listening until he pulled into the driveway. Bizarre.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9458 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
huRtZ413
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i did this too! while he was at work but good thing he was just cursing out his buddies and laughing about how some guy messed up . or talking about how many reps the other can do in the gym lol



me_BW
him_WH


I'M ON THE FENCE



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
Ostrich80
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Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've done the same thing.
I was actually wanting to hear something because I never get a slip up from him.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 4862 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
GingerAle
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My FWH is a professional butt dialer...does it to me at least twice a week! And 2 1/2 years from DDay, I still listen. And we are doing good in R. I look forward to the day I don't need to listen. I like what Putto said about it being an opportunity to make a deposit in the trust bank


My WH (The KISA, NPD) 6 month EA in 2010
2 other EAs in 2012 & 2013
Filed for D 7/2014


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