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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't get it either. I thought there really was another forum I could earn access to.

I never heard about cheese abuse. Please explain. (Unless you mean the cheesy nut man date)

ETA: Nevermind. I just learned about cheese abuse while reading that corn on the cob was justification to have an A.

[This message edited by gahurts at 8:18 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday)]


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Posts: 3407 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know what cheesy nut man date means!

I can't remember which user it was (somebody help me!) but apparently her WH and the OW were talking shit about her lasagna because she used five different kinds of cheese in it. They said that was cheese abuse, to use that many cheeses.

Just goes to show that A) they'll find any excuse to run you down, and B) they're stupid, because the only thing better than cheese is more cheese.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6672 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Threads created by some that doesn't want you following will still show in the forum list with "......." as a thread title and the username hidden
.

Hey, I have already seen this a couple times. Did someone already "forget" me in the testing phase?


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Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jana - the cheesy nut man is a New Beginnings legend. SadinAZ recounts the story in this thread...

http://wwe.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=464871&AP=1&HL=


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That was Marzipan, Jana, of Soulmate Shmoopies fame. She even made a Soul Mate Shmoopie of the cheese abuse, it is part 3 "Trouble in Paradise". If you haven't seen the Soul Mate Shmoopies series, google it and you will find it right away. Hilarious!


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Posts: 9546 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MARZIPAN! Yes!

NIK thanks for the cheesy nut man link. OMG what a great date!


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Posts: 6672 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

tj
That was Marzipan, Jana, of Soulmate Shmoopies fame.

I LOVED her movies. I think that was my first real laugh after dday. I laughed till the tears flowed.
end tj

I've tj'd this thread twice now. I'm afraid MH is going to give me the boot. Sooo...

However, I am sure we all remember what it was like to come here with those raw, "right after the A" feelings; there were people that said something in a way that was not conducive to our healing, at that moment. There are still many people who can get the same message out to them, but maybe in a different way. Sometimes we just need a way to block comments until we're ready to hear from that person.

I agree with Mama. I still feel that way now, years later, and I equally know I'm like a bull in a china shop most days.


Growing forward

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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

T/J Remember that one time (right now) when Mo3K was going to respond to cheese abuse, over an hour ago, but got wrapped up in figuring out how she is going to pay for college, only to come back and see she never responded about cheese abuse

Stupid school stuff has me all stressed out today End t/j


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aesir
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

However, I am sure we all remember what it was like to come here with those raw, "right after the A" feelings; there were people that said something in a way that was not conducive to our healing, at that moment.

Uh that would be everyone, and everything they said. Nevermind Aubries list, I can imagine going platinum and asking how much extra to supersize the forget list.

Stupid school stuff has me all stressed out today
Don't go to "stupid school". Pick a good one instead.


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 1:30 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

there is a 100K forum, and it's located by DS & MH's pool.

Along with the tequila, right?

Jana, you apparently didn't go to a high school where the favorite prank was to tell the freshman about the pool on the roof.....

Ok. Back *on topic*

Actually I just made my question go away because.....I shouldn't try to think too hard when I'm tired.....

<I have not read any other threads since the announcement....because I just.don't.wanna.know. >
j/k

[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 1:48 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday)]


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7944 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm curious, and maybe you'd rather not say, but is this monitored? Like, can staff see who is following/forgetting whom? If yes, do you all actually care enough to watch?

And if so, over time I'd be very curious how often Person A forgets Person B, sees a grayed out post, is overcome with curiosity at what Person B said, unforgets Person B temporarily, reads the post they were trying to ignore, and then forgets Person B again.

ETA: 'cause that's totally how I'd be. I can ignore you all day, but darn if I'm not curious what you're saying!

[This message edited by Amazonia at 1:42 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday)]


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heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gonnabe, I'd assume you could log out and then you could see the thread in question.


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HB09--that's what I figured. However, the basic premise of my question was wrong.....(I think)


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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