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User Topic: When to move back
residencywife93
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not sure if we're reconciling or divorcing... But I have been out of the house since 6/9. I need to stay out of town for work through 7/20. I would like to come back 7/21.

He keeps saying he needs "space". Confident that A is over as she started a new job today in a new city (where I currently am right now- ugh)

I've given him what will be six weeks. I have 180-Ed. I think I'm ready to go back and not be emotional. Can I just go back? It's my house too! If he has a problem can't he leave then? He is a bully and keeps saying I'm "pushing" him and frankly I'm pretty tired of hearing that one as frankly, I don't give a damn. I've made some consultations with lawyers to know my rights, but I need to be in the same city to meet with them.

What do you all think?


Me: BS 27
Him: WH 27
Married 9/3/11
Together since 10/2006
DDay 5/28/13
Filed 7/22/13

Lacing up my nikes and running west!


Posts: 36 | Registered: Jun 2013
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's my house too! If he has a problem can't he leave then? He is a bully and keeps saying I'm "pushing" him and frankly I'm pretty tired of hearing that one as frankly, I don't give a damn.

I think you make some really good points here


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37406 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
Jospehine85
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Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is not the victim here. You are.

Stop letting him reverse the roles.


Me - BS 40s
WH - 50s
4 Kids
Dday May 2012

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