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User Topic: He texted me!!! I feel like a giddy teenager! hahaha
She11ybeanz
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Content  Posted: 11:45 AM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My date texted me the following sweet thoughtful text!

"Hey Shelly...I hope you are having a great day! I am looking forward to seeing you tonight!"

::insert my stupid grin::

Is it silly how excited I am??

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 11:46 AM, July 2nd (Tuesday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

said with all kinds of sympathy and from experience of giddy teenager like feelings...lower your expectations, Sweetie!

Have a nice time, enjoy yourself, don't expect this one to be "the" one.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

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lostmommy
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have a great time!


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

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InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Notice how high you get from even the smallest amount of attention and do your best to keep yourself in observation mode. Ie.. notice the thrill but dont get lost in it, dont let it become an attention-addiction. Have fun, keep expectations to a dull roar and maintain a wide perspective.


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No...no expectations here! Its just nice to get a little bit of attention for once. I'm totally going into this as just a nice dinner out! Nothing more, nothing less!

It will be so nice to not have to entertain my daughter the whole time and wear half of HER food by the end of the meal! I haven't gone to a restaurant WITHOUT her....GOSH.... I honestly can't remember!!!

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 1:14 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have fun Shelly. Agree with another poster to lower your expectations to increase your chances that you will have a good experience.
It is nice having those positive hopes and I sure hope it all goes well for you.
Maybe you should go run 10 miles beforehand to take a little of the edge off!


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe you should go run 10 miles beforehand to take a little of the edge off!

Man!! If I could I would!!! I get off work and barely have enough time to pick up the sitter, my daughter, and get home and freshen up before meeting him!! EEK!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you... And hoping your first date with "marathon dad" is a great one.

Update tomorrow please


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hahaha!!! Hmmm.....that will now be dubbed his new name..."Marathon Dad" (even though he hasn't run a marathon yet....its still very catchy!! ;-)


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Every OLD needs a nickname :))))

[This message edited by timeforchange at 4:18 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)]


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
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