I have no clue why he is randomly texting me like this, but its the second time now he's tried to get some response from me. The first time I gave him nothing but crickets. Now here he is again.
My question is do I stay with crickets? Or send back something like "Please don't ever text me again." I would block his texts immediately but since we are both on iphones they come via imessage and that can't be blocked.
Its VERY tempting to send something like, "what makes you think I give a shit about your opinion? This doesn't concern you, so f*ck off and do not text me again, about this or anything else, EVER."
Which response is likely to:
a- make him leave me the fuck alone, AND b- upset him more. Because if I'm being honest, those are my two objectives. I want him miserable, and far away.
What are your thoughts??
[This message edited by gypsybird87 at 2:37 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)]
"You've always had the power, my dear.You just had to learn it for yourself." Glinda, Wizard of Oz
He sells wire and other components to this security company and knows the owner. Something was probably mentioned to him in passing.
If I were to say "don't text me ever again" what do you think he would do? Go silent or try to engage further?
"what makes you think I give a shit about your opinion? This doesn't concern you, so f*ck off and do not text me again, about this or anything else, EVER."
Then the best thing you can do is give him *crickets*. Then he is not even worth the effort of the Keystrokes.
And maybe they'd throw in a free month or two of monitoring for the breech of safety they already caused me.
What a fucking control freak - just dying for you to know he knows. Trying to interject himself into your life.
Crickets to him - completely. He is baiting you, don't bite.
Mine was doing the same thing, sending me random texts about things that don't concern me.
He told me how he had to get a new job because of policy changes at his current work. All bullshit since I know he didn't like his job and that's where he met the Twinkie so maybe management booted his ass out. He gave me all of the details about where he'd be working, when he was starting, bla bla bla. All I kept thinking was, WTF does this have to do with me? So I texted him and said" just make sure you have money to pay half the bills". No response.
Crickets are best.
My ex was always commenting on my flat when he dropped the children off saying this and that was nice and he liked how I had moved the furniture. As if I need his opinion. I've now asked that he drop our children off at the door and do not come in.
And definitely contact that company, they should not be discussing your business especially to you ex-husband. Creepy!