Topic: child support question
Member # 37556
| Posted: 3:50 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013|
If you get child support, does your s/d agreement specify when you get it? Is there something that is standard?
Me BS 54
Him WS 51
Married 10 years together 13
DDay October 11, 2012
Posts: 133 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Brooklyn, NY
Member # 38928
| Posted: 4:07 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013|
Our state guideline standard is the first of every month and it is specified in the agreement.
BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs, started 1994 - never stopped
3 kids - 22, 20, 17
M Dissolved 10/18/13!!!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man, ~ Shakespeare
Posts: 614 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of hell's ashes!
Member # 32554
| Posted: 4:08 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013|
The draft I'm working on specifies the first of the month.
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED YOU, YOU SON OF A BITCH!
Posts: 7357 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 34517
| Posted: 4:43 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013|
Mine also specifies that the payment is "late" after the 5th of the month, and that if he's late more than 2 times I can take the matter to my state's child support enforcement agency.
Interestingly HIS lawyer put that in. MY lawyer told me I can take it to the agency at any time, so that clause doesn't really require me to wait until he's late 3 times. Still, I liked the wording of it.
Me: BW (49)
DD: my birthday 2007
2 teen-age boys
Posts: 197 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: PA
Member # 38377
| Posted: 5:09 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013|
Mine's supposed to be the first of the month. Of course today is the second and no check.
BW~ 34, Two DS~ 10 and 6
D-Day 9/2012, False R/S 10/2012, Filed D 11/2012, Anxiously awaiting D 20??
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Posts: 1116 | Registered: Feb 2013
Member # 10506
| Posted: 5:56 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013|
Mine specifically says on the first day of the month.
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Posts: 16843 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
Member # 18334
| Posted: 6:36 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013|
Mine says on the first day of the month.
I think...therefore, I'm single.
Posts: 4289 | Registered: Feb 2008
Member # 38405
| Posted: 12:44 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013|
Any way to appeal to support enforcement? Mine is a weekly payment garnished via his employer.
Me- Divorced! 12/4/13
"They cling to their bad choices out of shame, because it is far easier to continue to destroy yourself than to do the heavy work required to fix yourself." - a wiser SIer
Posts: 399 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Northeast US
Member # 17890
| Posted: 1:02 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013|
Mine (child support and alimony) is every two weeks.
It's garnished by the state through his employer and direct deposited in my bank account.
I can't tell you how much easier it is than sweating it out every month.
what did I ever do to deserve this?
Him: X, 51 PA SA NPD?
2 kids; DD14, DD8 divorced
Posts: 999 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: east coast
Member # 33440
| Posted: 1:04 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013|
Mine is garnished every week from his paycheck. Best thing I ever did.
I love child support Tuesdays!
Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself
Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
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