Topic: I am in Pergo-tory
Member # 35812
| Posted: 3:20 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
Literally. Well, it's a wood laminate, but it's that snap together flooring. We're redoing the office over the weekend and eventually, will redo our hallway, guest room, and the dining room. Looking good too. Taking a short chips, dip, and soft drink break right now.
I'm amazed at how easily it's going. Almost like we can read each other's minds. And how easily we're working together. Two weeks ago, I had just come back home from leaving for three days after finding his porn stash (ironically, in the same room that we're redoing). And today, peace, harmony, and chips & dip!
Life can be a funny old thing, can't it? OK, break over, back to pergo-tory!
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 4124 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 38207
| Posted: 4:43 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
Glad things are going well. I was so hopeful for you when you posted about the shredder and this post made me smile.
Posts: 882 | Registered: Jan 2013
Member # 38797
| Posted: 5:58 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
Good for you Skan. Best place to start rebuilding is from the ground up.
Me: WH 42
Her BS 41
married 14 yrs, 3 kids (13,10,8) 2 dogs
6 month EA and PA
Posts: 80 | Registered: Mar 2013
Member # 27303
| Posted: 6:37 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013|
Happy to hear things are better.
Me-41 FWW Him-44BH
M 13years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008 (OM2)
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Confessed to OM 2001)
"The only thing permanent is change." Dr Charles Mayo,1930
Posts: 1947 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The SouthEast
Member # 38437
| Posted: 11:51 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013|
Skan...That is good to read.
We have Pergo throughout our house. I love it..it's indestructible..A word I hope will describe our M and the M of those who are also in R.
Me: BW 51 (didn't have a clue)
Him: FWH 54(extremely remorseful about his stupid midlife crisis)
Married 27 yrs
PA that lasted approx. 2 weeks. OW was a younger but totally screwed up %#@%!
Posts: 130 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: California
Member # 34319
| Posted: 3:53 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013|
Glad to hear things are going better and you are clicking. Thinking of you.
D-day: Christmas 2011 when i saw a text from MarriedOW to WH
D-day 2: 3/28/2013: confessed phone sex over 10 years ago (2000 or 2001) with another OW
Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school
Posts: 1424 | Registered: Dec 2011
Member # 16024
| Posted: 4:11 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013|
I love all the metaphors in this thread .
Take up your space (and do it well).
"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."
Posts: 34758 | Registered: Sep 2007
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