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User Topic: Got married.
aLadypilot
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Content  Posted: 11:42 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just got married!

I got married in 1993, and just now in 2013. Ha! Just realized that.

I don't post much, so I don't expect any to know me, but just wanted to extend hope to the newer people here. I am NOT saying, "someday you will find your special someone." I mean, I certainly hope you do! But what I've learned through all this infidelity experience, and we hear it all the time, is how important healing is. I am at a very happy place in my life now, and I can say that if my new husband ever cheats on me, having gone through it before, I know that I can survive and even thrive after the experience. I am a complete person all on my own and do not NEED a partner. It is nice to have one, but I am my own soul mate.

I hope that doesn't come across as diminishing my new sweet, wonderful amazing, nearly perfect hubby, but I hope you get what I'm trying to say?


Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13

Posts: 4080 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Twin Cities
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 11:47 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51438 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
thyme2go
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Default  Posted: 11:47 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! You look so happy in the pictures on FB! :-)


BH - no longer 48
3 DD's - (27, 24 and 17)
Divorced on 8/6/09

Posts: 9174 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Eastern Washington
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Congratulations!!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24385 | Registered: Aug 2011
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 12:43 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!

I remember you!


Posts: 11380 | Registered: Mar 2008
okaynow
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Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.

Posts: 2430 | Registered: Mar 2007
really trying
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Default  Posted: 12:59 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congratulations!


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10389 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
m334455
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Default  Posted: 1:20 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I say "Whoo-hoo! Awesome! Congrats! Now get the heck out of here and enjoy your honeymoon, lady!"


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

Posts: 4034 | Registered: Dec 2009
cayc
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Default  Posted: 3:26 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, best wishes to you!


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 2999 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
stronger08
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Default  Posted: 3:39 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I remember you well. Congrats and thanks for the update.


You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

Posts: 5552 | Registered: Nov 2007
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 4:17 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 19781 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
sadcat
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Of course I remember you! Congratulations and I hope you have many happy years together.


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


Posts: 13217 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: GA
cmego
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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congrats!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4007 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!

I am so happy for you!


Posts: 33738 | Registered: Mar 2011
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I remember you, too... congratulations!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15359 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
tearsofjade
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you Congrats!!!


FBW(me)48
Divorced and really happy!
The best revenge is a life lived well!

Posts: 653 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: michigan
I think I can
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh wonderful! Perhaps I'll meet him this summer???


I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.

Posts: 8788 | Registered: Jan 2008
Threnody
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! Now I wish I'd bought that silly hat girlalmostgone and I found yesterday. I'd have sent it special, just for you.

Please tell me you played Bollywood music at your reception.


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 14040 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX
aLadypilot
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha ha Threnody, that is a great idea! As it turns out, we are saving the reception til the fall, so now I may have to incorporate that idea!

It was just us and kids, no family or friends, as we just wanted to seize the moment.

I think I can, not this year sadly. He doesn't have enough vacation time to come with us. I'll be out there the week of August 11th, just fyi.

Thank you everyone for the congratulations!

edited to fix a typo

[This message edited by aLadypilot at 2:02 PM, July 6th (Saturday)]


Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13

Posts: 4080 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Twin Cities
gma56
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Cool  Posted: 4:06 PM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I remember you when I first arrived at SI !

Congrats to both you and your husband !

Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

Posts: 20322 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
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