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User Topic: The little things...
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 5:15 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I think I finally belong down here in NB

I have just got back from a holiday with my kids and it was awesome

The kids had a great time!

We didn't even think of xwh until we were souvenir shopping before departure and a fleeting thought about the crap he used to buy but the thought was more about how I don't have to tolerate his clutter/hoarding anymore.

Xwh tried making all sorts of threats trying to stop us taking this holiday, but I didn't let him control me/us anymore yay me

We have been on holidays since the DDay but I would always end up in tears, a bubbling mess or me putting a brave face on for the kids. Not this time. I didn't need too.

On the way to the airport one of my kids made a joke, it wasn't particularly funny but I was in hysterics I was laughing so much I was in tears. It was that moment right there I realised hey I am ok. I am more than ok. Its been a long long time since I have laughed like that.

Bring on the future I am ready to face it now.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1324 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17341 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!! So fantastic, Bluebird.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25062 | Registered: Aug 2011
SBB
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOVE LOVE LOVE this!

Welcome!


We have been on holidays since the DDay but I would always end up in tears, a bubbling mess or me putting a brave face on for the kids. Not this time. I didn't need too.

^^I had this even before DD. He seriously always sucked the joy out of the room unless he was drunk or on his way to getting drunk.

#FunKiller


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5535 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
newnormal
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

 but the thought was more about how I don't have to tolerate his clutter/hoarding anymore.

Laughter feels so good, doesnt it?


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Dec 2008
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will stand up and celebrate not hoarding clutter with you!

Love this post.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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