I hope the letter helps, even if it hurts at first (((hugs)))
Being very, very careful
D-day 14 June 2013
I'm smart, good looking and gosh darn it, people like me!
My feet hurt for a week. I am crazy.
He did get that I was mad.
Sometimes you gotta shake 'em up.
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
I kinda felt bad for losing it like that at the time. I felt like I should have been more dignified. But honestly, in hind sight, I think I should have been a way bigger bitch than I was. He was dragging our family through hell and his leaving for good would have been far less damaging than our putting up with having him around when he was still drinking. There was no chance of working on our M or dealing with the damage his A caused until he was well into sobriety.
[This message edited by Ladyogilvy at 11:04 AM, July 7th (Sunday)]
DDay - May 9
"You are strong and brave." - My fortune shortly after DDay, the cookie knew just what to say.