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User Topic: Mojo, please...
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The kids are coming back tonight at 6:00 pm-- I'm presuming that the wedding took place. I want to be calm, supportive, and able to keep a smile on my face. I need some SI zen mojo today if you have any.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3596 | Registered: Oct 2011
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending super SI mojo, strength, hugs, and chocolate.

Posts: 35099 | Registered: Mar 2011
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lots of mojo!!

Was just telling my sister yesterday how hard it is to hear the kids talk about OW and just say, "That's nice," instead of, "Oh, you mean rotten dirty slut who helped ruin our family?"

Keep taking the high road girl.. I know it's not easy.. You're not alone..

Hugs..


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2231 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

zen mojo!!

One thing that helped me was to imagine putting (insert unbelievable horror of infidelity) on SI later. It sometimes helped me to frame it in humor or kept me from acting like an idiot (sometimes)... And no matter what, I knew I would get hugs and acceptance when it was posted.

I'll be here!!

(((trying)))


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5805 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
hangingontohope7
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo your way.


Me: BW
DDay #1 Tried R
DDAY #2 Divorcing

Burn everything love then burn the ashes.


Posts: 247 | Registered: Jun 2008
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

mojo and hugs (((ta74)))


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12146 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending potent mojo and huge hugs!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25429 | Registered: Sep 2005
Take2
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Breathe in, breathe out!

Pleasant Stepford smile...

and when the kids are in bed - we'll hold the pillows for you to pound...

Meanwhile - breathe in - breath out... and major peace-loving mojo!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4113 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
soveryweary
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending a boatload....


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 626 | Registered: May 2011
peridot
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo!!!


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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