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User Topic: Is that the Karma bus I hear?
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After a failed attempt at mediation at the beginning of June, we've got court coming up on July 31.. My attorney sent me an email that said, "Looks like all his attorneys are bailing on him," and included an attachment with their Motion to Withdraw from the case. POS was on his third attorney from the firm, and the letter says that she and the whole firm are requesting to withdraw..

I had a similar motion filed by my old attorney when I switched lawyers, but mine stated all communication should be forwarded to my new attorney. Their motion requests that all communication be sent to him at his house.

Not for sure here, but we just subpoenaed his employer for his time stamps and benefits, so I'm guessing he had to admit that he HAS been working when he was supposed to be watching the children and that he was lying about his pension plan, and I'm sure no lawyer would appreciate being lied to..

I don't think he's saved emails or text messages either, so not sure how he's going to fight our contempt motion for disparagement in front of the kids since I have him admitting it all in emails and texts (and we showed 2 of them to him and his attorney in mediation), and he probably can't even show the rest to his lawyers since he probably didn't save them.. Dumbass..

The POS also changed his email address. Let's pretend his name is Fred. He changed it from "masterfrednice@gmail.com" to "disparagingfred@yahoo.com." The new one is way more truthful..

I don't want to get over-confident here, but with the help of my new lawyer and all of you guys here at SI, I think the Karma bus is about to run him over. Multiple times


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that is really his new email??

Disparaging whatever his name is??

What a dumbass.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe someone at SI could set up a email server that BS could assign to people we are forced to communicate with. Like a proxy server that would deliver email to whatever legitimate email people assign themselves, but we would not be forced to type it in or see it in our inbox.

Hmmmmmmm.....

I think I would use

stretch&skew@iamaliar.com

for all email going to the lower muppet.

[This message edited by caregiver9000 at 4:26 PM, July 7th (Sunday)]


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yep, lawyers don't like getting lied to. Sounds like not only is the karma bus coming, but that your stbx managed to drive it and run over himself at the same time.

Really, really hope this means everything goes your way now.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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Take2
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whatever it is - it sounds like good news for you. Maybe he's cocky enough to represent himself and try stonewalling and lying to the judge... *hehe*


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love it when outsiders see the lower muppet underneath the bullshit exterior.

Moreso when he shows them all by himself.

It is my favourite form of Karma.

*Beep Beep*


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope he's stupid enough to try and represent himself.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like not only is the karma bus coming, but that your stbx managed to drive it and run over himself at the same time.

Everyone said it would feel better if I wasn't the one driving the bus. And you know what? They are absolutely correct.

That is really his new email?? Disparaging whatever his name is??

Yes, for me anyway. He sent me an email from it saying that I'm only allowed to send emails to him on the new one.

What a dumbass.

I couldn't agree more..


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm with peri.

Let him show the court how supersmart he is by self representation!


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