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User Topic: So I was out in the garage and I found...
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I was out in the garage today packing up some more of STBX's stuff and found something. It actually hasn't affected me very much, mostly I feel pity.

What did I find?

I found a love note from the prostitute to STBX. Apparently they were engaged at one point! I didn't know that. I knew about her, but had no idea they were engaged.

Who proposes marriage to a hooker, anyway?


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9317 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NG)))

I knew this was you as soon as I read garage...

I imagine you could send your tales in to syfy and maybe they would do a show about your garage. I don't know if it should be a documentary or a mystery though.

?Who indeed proposes to a prostitute...


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5616 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad it didn't reopen any wounds!

Now, if I had found something like that I would have been accused of invading his privacy by going thru his stuff for the sole purpose of looking for things to use against him!!!

Laugh at it for what it is...a joke!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 979 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG, that's so... bizarre....

And I was expecting penis pump or something similar.

You can't make this shit up!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17173 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lord. I can't imagine the level of Kool-aid consumption required to do that.

My offer stands to show up at your garage with a lit match and a big bag of plausible deniability for you.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I knew it was you, when I saw the title. LOL.

I'll help NIK, that way you have an alibi also.

Wow...


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4860 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What I find shocking and pathetic is that STBX was completely in love with her. Yet he knew she was a hooker who had a boyfriend/pimp & everything. But he went ahead & fell in love with her anyway, was jealous that she had sex with other guys, the whole nine yards.

I feel sorry for him. How messed up in the head do you have to be to fall in love with a hooker who you met because you paid for her services, and then be jealous of what she does for a living? When I think of what it must be like to live in STBX's head, man, what a terrifying place.

I'm so glad I'm free!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9317 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
cayc
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who proposes marriage to a hooker, anyway?

An idiot, that's who. But then you knew that already didn't you!


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3003 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad I'm free!
So are we, sweetie.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm relieved that it was just a love note! I once went on a walking tour of houses in an incredible neighborhood, and I heard people talking about one of the houses that had just been renovated. When the owners went up into the attic to start cleaning it out for renovation, they found jars and jars of the previous owner's urine! Whenever I see your garage thread titles, I'm afraid it's going to be about jars of urine or worse...


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3543 | Registered: Oct 2011
MyReturn2Me
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Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After a while you just gotta roll your eyes at this shit

(((NG)))


Me: BS 51 and Freaking AWESOME!
Him: Who the fuck cares........

Posts: 259 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Puget Sound
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad I'm free!

I'm so glad you're free too. A terrifying place his mind must be indeed.. Maybe he thinks he's Richard Gere from Pretty Woman


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Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2005 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whenever I see your garage thread titles, I'm afraid it's going to be about jars of urine or worse...

AMEN!

One of these days I'll have to give all y'all the rundown on the book that STBX & the hooker were writing together. Here's a hint: it's a sex book.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9317 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
debbysbaby
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We have been overdue for a garage thread, NG.

Hugs. What a stupid moron.


-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

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homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait a minute,,shouldn't you give this to your atty?


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 1980 | Registered: Jan 2012
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, July 7th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Atty doesn't care. It's "old news". Anyways, this stuff is really tame compared to the other stuff.

Someday I'm going to write a book.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9317 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 1:58 AM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ah, it's been a while since we've heard sbout the garage.

I agree with cg9000....SyFy would love your garage. It's kind of like a portal to another dimension. It would have to be a documentary on "The Haunting of NGs Garage", because no fiction writer could ever write a screenplay that is as fucked up as what has actually happened in that garage.

Thanks for the update.


I'm Happy, not Sad!

Posts: 1152 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
peridot
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Default  Posted: 2:08 AM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think you need to gut the garage, walls and all. There's no telling what else you will find.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:15 AM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There used to be a show back in the 80's, and nowadays there's a similar show titled "Warehouse 13", in which haunted items have to be retrieved and brought back to a place for safekeeping. My garage makes me think of that concept. Lots of haunted items that reveal themselves to me one by one, then I have to battle the demons they unleash.

You know, I never would have found the stuff I found if STBX wasn't A) such a packrat who B) also would take my stuff & squirrel it away in the garage (that is when he didn't just outright throw my shit away). But since he was such a packrat, and because I did want to find my stuff, I started going through boxes. I realized that he'd deliberately mixed up present-day stuff with old stuff from the 80's & 90's. He'd deliberately mixed up his stuff with my stuff. So unless I wanted to throw away my own things I had to go through every single m-fing box out there. Item by item. And that's how I've managed to find most of the things.

Hmmmm, so if I pitch this to SyFy, who should play me? Hmmmmm..... Something fun to think about.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9317 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
KickedintheGut
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Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, July 8th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love your garage threads!

I am completely curious as to what you would find if you gutted the garage. I could seriously see your STBX hiding the mysterious disappearing items from your house in the walls.


Me - BW (38) Him (calcitro) - SAWH (38)
2 Kids Working on R
DDay#1 - 11/9/10 - 2 year EA/PA
DDay #2 - 12/9/10
Disclosure - 4/8/11
Timeline - 5/9/11

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