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User Topic: Here we go again...
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((crush3d)))))

My god. It breaks my heart to read this...this isn't supposed to happen to R'd SI old-timers.

Sending you strength and peace - you know where we "live" and as you know, we'll be here for you...

I'm so, so sorry...

Lala

[This message edited by Lalagirl at 3:18 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)]


Me - 48; FWH - 50
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 26
4yo GS & 14 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/14(DD30) and 2yo GD(DD26). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 4800 | Registered: May 2007
1Faith
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry you find yourself here again.

It is completely unfair and is just plain awful.

May you find strength to live a life that you deserve. One based on honesty, truth and genuine love.

We are all here and rooting for you.

Stay strong.

(((hugs)))


If you're going through hell, keep going. - Winston Churchill

Posts: 829 | Registered: Apr 2013
bluewater
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

crushed3d I remember your username and story from your first time around. Funny how some stories just stick out and stay with you.

Needless to say I am really sorry to hear that she did this again.

Peace and strength to you.


Posts: 485 | Registered: Jan 2006
redrock
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

crushed3d I remember your username and story from your first time around. Funny how some stories just stick out and stay with you.

Me too.

Her sobbing reply was "Don't look... please, don't look..."

Such a sad, pathetic choice. Throwing aside a man of strength and character for the one that caused terrible injuries to her body (and marriage).

Adding my voice to those that are so sorry this happened again.


I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

Posts: 3119 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Michigan
crush3d
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow... again, this site is just amazing to me. Thank you all for the support and strength your words lend me.

Aftermath Day 1 - work was busy, thankfully. Kept me mostly distracted. The odd song would play on the radio that that would trip me up a bit, but no visible (at least outwardly) breakdowns.

Now I'm at home... recovering from a good bawl. Is it odd that I got more emotional sending her parents a lengthy thank-you/goodbye email than when I ended it with her over the phone? Weird stuff, I tell you...

Someone asked earlier about no-fault state, etc... I'm in Canada, actually. And from what I've been able to tell, the province I'm in doesn't have any at-fault provisions for divorce proceedings.

In any case, that backup info is there if I need it until I pay to access it and delete it myself. I really don't want to have to do that, but if pressed, I will. And I kept copies of the evidence from the last runaround as well. I'm well equipped to deal with whatever craziness may come my way - but I'm honestly not expecting any.

Now I have to steel myself to break the news to my parents. This should be fun... I'll keep posting later. Need food first.

And kleenex... I seem to be running out of it quickly.


BH 42 - WW 33 - Two 4-legged kids
Married 6 yrs - together 13
D-day 9/29/07

Posts: 319 | Registered: Jan 2008
toomanyregrets
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry you have to go through this again.
Once is enough for anyone.

You'd think you WW would have learned something from before, but I guess not.


BH - 63
fWW - 59

"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife


Posts: 426 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Upstate NY
AussieMum
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry to read this, crush3d

These cheaters are so heartless, so broken.

Sending you lots of strength, take care of yourself.


Me 46
STBXH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS11 & DD7)
Separated Jan 13. He's now living with OW3.

Posts: 179 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
rmhm97
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, July 9th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know all too well what you are going thru and my friend I wish you a speedy recovery back to a solid sense of self. For me, the emotional roller coaster is so hard to deal with and even tho it has happened twice now I did not see it coming either time. Strength and peace to you.


Me BS(49)
Her WW(39)
Married 16 years
D-day July 6th 2013
Day the fog lifted (each day is a step closer)

Posts: 9 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Gulf Coast - MS
redrock
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Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I made the assumption it was with the same OM. I apologize for my misdirected post.

Hope today is a better day.

Kate


I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

Posts: 3119 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Michigan
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((crus3d))

I'm also a member of the multiple D-Days club. It is truly soul crushing.

Hang in there.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 6985 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
HurtButHoping12
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry :( I've had several D-Days and its just awful :( Stay strong!


BW (me):29
WH (guiltfilled11): 30
together 10 years, married 4 years
DDay: July 6th 2011
False R: beginning of August
R since August 29 2011
Kids: DD 6, DS 3, DD 2

Posts: 164 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: HurtButHoping12
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