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User Topic: I need some mojo
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can't really go into details, but things at work are getting increasingly uncomfortable, and the stress is starting to make me sick. Still waiting on the job offer that was supposed to come and hasn't, for a dream job that would line up perfectly with finishing school.

Suffice it to say, I've been fighting tears most of the morning at my desk.

Something needs to break soon, and I'm really hoping it's not my emotional health.

I don't like asking for mojo, because I know that I've got it pretty good - I have a job, if an uncomfortable one, and I'm financially stable even if something happens, but ... something needs to change.

ETA Maybe I need positive energy more than mojo.

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Update on page 3: (Spoiler alert: I got the job! )

[This message edited by Amazonia at 8:45 AM, July 17th (Wednesday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Covering you, Ama. Get your armor on!

Deep breaths. Take a walk later if you can.

Remember: THEY DON'T MATTER.

Focus on the future.

We've got your back.

(((Ama)))

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Count me in.


fBH (me) - 65+, fWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9768 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ama)))

Sending you mojo.


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay strong Ama...


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3753 | Registered: Dec 2011
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't like asking for mojo

Mojo is free, so keep asking if you need it.

(((ama)))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending Mojo... and virtual hugs...you sound like you need one.

K


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe I need positive energy more than mojo.

Sending both your way!


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo and positive energy flowing your way...


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo, positive energy, and tons of hugs all coming your way. (((((Ama)))))


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Boy, do I know the feeling Ama. I hope you get good news soon.


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Ama))

Hang in there. It will get better.


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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Ama))

I hope your day improved...

sending you "rest of the week mojo"..


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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((ama)) mojo and positive thoughts heading your way.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo headed your way.

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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, July 10th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Ama)))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please keep it coming. They're laying people off again (started today during reviews), and my review is tomorrow at 10am.

I am terrified.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending extra mojo!!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51516 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More mojo headed your way.


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24350 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending super mojo and hugs.

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