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User Topic: Mass "winking" ....the new drunk texting! lol
She11ybeanz
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Funny  Posted: 9:28 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay....so I'm not drunk...but I've had a couple of glasses of wine and made the mistake of going onto the dating site and doing a "search"... and apparently the beer goggles work through the computer screen cause I got wink happy!!

Time for bed obviously.... and I KNOW I will regret this tomorrow!!!!

Why can't my computer lock up when I get out the moscato??


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, oops...


BH, now divorced

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah...oops... There's nothing wrong with a "little" cheap winking is there?? Oh well...maybe I can boost a few egos at the very least....


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does anyone ever respond to winks? I never did when I got them so I never used them.


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, July 11th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I responded to some winks. Met some nice women that way.

But sometimes I think I was a victim of wink blasting, the equivalent of men sending out 50 brainless messages in a single hour. These would arrive at 3 in the morning, and if I responded, I never heard back, cause you know, everyone looks pretty fine at 3am when your drunk!


BH, now divorced

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 5:28 AM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I actually met triathlon dad by winking at him randomly....and he emailed me in response....so I guess you can meet people that way!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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cmego
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've responded to a few, but I now have in my profile that I don't really understand "winking" and I prefer for them to email me.

I have never winked at a guy. If I'm interested, I send him a short, but cute, email.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

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lostmommy
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I ignored the winks unless it was followed up by a message (and to be honest ignored my fair share of those as well).

Don't worry, Shelly! At least you weren't texting them!


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I'm safe.... most of the ones I winked at were far enough out of town that I don't think I need to worry about contact...

Oh well.... my computer needs a breathalyzer...


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2719 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
better4me
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh well.... my computer needs a breathalyzer...

or an ankle bracelet!!


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Divorced

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UndecidedinMA
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As long as it is safe winking!


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Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, July 12th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

or an ankle bracelet

This might be better so it can ZAP me if I try to do anything rash or stupid!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2719 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I never responded to winks and when I didn't respond after a number of days, some sent email after winking.

I have emailed on one of my realxing nites after a few. It was still ok in the morning!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

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