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User Topic: Weekend!
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 12:17 AM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Rebuilding my deck with neighbor and SO, and my mom makes us lunch.

Going to SO' bosses party. Wish he would take that money and give raises instead, hopefully this will be short.

Massage on Sunday.

Making card swaps for a STampin up convention I'm going to next week in Salt Lake City.


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5862 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 12:17 AM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DP

[This message edited by InnerLight at 12:18 AM, July 13th (Saturday)]


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5862 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry; I can't divulge until it's over, but it's definitely NB-related.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20292 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Tictac
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Friday night I invited my BF over for dinner, watched TV, he stayed over. Worked on Saturday, then grocery shopping, gardening & dog walking.
Figured I wouldn't invite myself over to the BFs place AGAIN, I'd wait for him to call me. Which is why at 10.30 at night I'm here on SI.


Me : BS 42 - Him : WS 47
OW 32
Married 16 years - no kids
D-Day 15th April 2009
Separated November 2009.
Divorced August 2011
WH moved 3000km to be with OW. Must be "true luuurve"!! I think 3000km is a fairly good distance!

Posts: 221 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Australia
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saaaaaaaaaaaad...... that's so not nice!

Or maybe it will be.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15415 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 2:44 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm reeling. My father died on Tuesday. My mother moved in with me the same day, and she's not dealing well with it (at all). She's been bed-ridden for 2 weeks now with "back pain". I know it's probably 25% physical pain and 75% emotional/mental, so I'm trying to help her through it. She has dementia, and is scared to death about facing life without my father.

But, I've had some damned good family members come from 200+ miles away to help out. Times like these really show you who you can count on. I am blessed in many ways. My Bear has moved heaven and earth to help me through this....this man is a "keeper", no doubt.

This weekend, I'm planning my father's Celebration of Life to be held at my house, preparing to put my mom in a nursing home for rehab/physical therapy, and just trying to cope.


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


Posts: 3168 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, July 14th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((exhaustedlady)))
I'm sorry to hear about your father.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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