I've been D for 8 yrs and never hear from her. As far as I'm concerned she has made her bed and can lie in it. I don't care anymore.
Today I talked with an old friend--someone that knew us both for 20+ yrs. He mostly stayed out of the whole thing and never really voiced his opinion on the D. I respected him for that. When I called him today he was half in the bag and was full of hell like he has always been since I've known him.
He told me that my ex made the biggest mistake in her life by leaving me and that he thinks her new husband is a dick I love it!!
I'm surprised he kept his mouth shut for so long. He's not the kind of guy to pull punches. Maybe the next time he sees her --he will tell her the same thing he told me today. I can see him doing it now
Had to share this---carry on people
ETA. My bags are packed mods. Move me where you will. Maybe this time I will find that sock I lost on the last move