Turned, I rarely disagree with Cat, I have read her posts for years. This time I disagree to a degree.
I have to say I have been guilty of not calling my husband when our agreement was that I would. He would want me to call & say I arrived safely wherever I went. It is a respectful thing to do & sometimes I failed & he would be hurt & pissed. All I could do was say sorry but I must confess it happened more than should have. I wasn't cheating or even thinking of it, I was just stressed & spacey. He worried, rightly so.
Our situations are different but my point is my "forgetfulness". I'm being honest in that it happened more than should have but it was a VERY stressful time.
I am & always have been totally into my husband & I am really good about being more respectful in my communication with him.
Does this make it clear as mud? I'm sorry Turned, it's hurtful no matter what. Hang in there & please keep updated. Duffy1958